two week friday i noticed that i had stopped trying to hook up with women for those two months and that i only kept focussing on having fun. although fun is extremely important i do want to find misses right. the very next day i gave hooking up another go.

when i entered by usual bar i saw a HB7.5 i had talked to a bit a couple of times before but nothing special. the evening was surprisingly easy and innocent. we talked a little bit before going into a loud club for happy hour (2 drinks pay for 1) with a group of 8 people. there i didn't spend any further attention to her for a while and started talking to everyone in the group. the ones i didn't know were litterally this:" hi hold out hand "i'm 0newinged." whenever i knew more to say i would and if not i wouldn't.

at some point the girl i was interested in got herself i sigaret. i picked it clean out of her mouth and told her smoking was bad for her with a big smile on my face and put it behind my ear while i kept smoking my own sigaret. she asked me for her sigaret back and i said no. she asked please? i asked her what would be in it for me. she asked what i wanted while trying to grab the sigaret. i blocked her hand turned her around pulled her back against me, pulled my arms around her and whispered in her ear "make me an offer first" . she looked at me with a dirty(sexual) look and asked me what i wanted again. at that point i was too shy say "a kiss" so we kept the game going until someone else snatched the sigaret and gave it to her.

bit later she was on the dance floor and as i can't dance in the slightest i stayed with the rest and talked a bit while finishing my drinks. she came up to me and said "come dance" (i was the only one she took along and most of the girls were on the dancefloor). when i got there it was pretty empty and i got anxious to make a fool of myself. they asked me why i didn't dance and i just said i can't dance. the one i told it to said "i can't too i just make something up. you should just try something" so i did and for some reason it was fun and no one laughed at me as far as a could see, which made a lot of sense when i look back because i was dancing with a few pretty good looking girls who all seemed to enjoy themselves.

at some point i pulled the girl against me again and dances a bit against her back while talking a bit in her ear. i don't know what i said anymore but it became sexual pretty fast. at the end of it i told her "watch it or i'll drag you to the bathroom". her reply was "you won't" and gave me a smile. i lifted her up to take her to the bathroom and a second after i lifted her up she started kissing me. the rest of the evening was mainly having fun with people and making out with her. didn't go for the f-close because she was way to drunk and it just wouldn't feel right.

that was the first kiss i considered earned with charm and game of all the 5 women i've kissed i my whole life.

any feedback or advice sedditors?