I went out last night with the girl from this FR. Also same girl in this FR. Long story short, after four dates, she seemed extremely uncomfortable with kino once we got back to my apartment, but on the fifth date, we had a good make out and I knew for sure that the girl was into me. Because today was a holiday, I knew the bar would be busy and it would be a good environment to bring her out to.

I got there about an hour before she did and just worked on mingling throughout the crowd, re-connecting with friends and acquaintances, and even making a couple new friends. She arrived and we traded buying drinks, spent most of the time talking alone, but I also walked her around a bit and introduced her to a couple of my friends, then pawned her off on my best friend's girlfriend to entertain her while I did my own thing for awhile. I kept my eye on her, and I could see other guys flirting with her (the bar was heavily male-dominated, and she was an HB9 wearing a lacey, see through top -- incredibly fucking hot), and I even saw one guy kiss her on the cheek. This really did it for me, I mean, I loving watching guys hit on a girl that I know is mine. Huge confidence boost.

We eventually bounce and leave for a quieter, sit-down place and continue talking. Lots of kino the whole time -- legs, hands, face, etc... After a couple rounds, we leave the second bar. As we get in the elevator, we engage in a makeout session. Once we get to the first floor, I just press the door close button and we keep going at it. She starts getting into it and tries to get me to take off my shirt in the elevator, as she was reaching up under my shirt to pinch my nipple. Goddamn, my how a girl can change!

We walk in the direction of my place, and she suggest one last beer, so I reply that we can buy some beer and drink it at my place, since it's only a block away. She agrees, on the condition that after we finish the beer she'll go home. I don't hesitate at all and say "Sure, that's fine". I've been told that sex wasn't going to happen enough times to know what that really means.

We get back to my place, put on some music and drink our beers. Then it was on like donkey kong. I hit a little LMR when I tried to get her pants off, but after pulling back and making out a bit more, they popped off without any trouble. She ended up leaving 10:30 AM.

Moral of the story: Just because a girl throws up some LMR or may seem less than interested, it may just be the girl's own comfort with escalating physically. Stick with it until you get a flat out no, and even then just dial it back temporarily and escalate again later.