I attended my first house party yesterday and I can finally see why these things are so alluring: its damn fun to socialize with strangers.

At this party there were a few girls I interacted with but only one interaction that really stood out. The interaction with an hb8 are as follow:

I could tell I made a good impression on her after introducing myself because she was very shy and giggly around me after briefly talking to her a few times. Most of these interactions were standard comfort building fare (how do you know such and such?) She avoided some of my eye contact with a smile by not looking into my eyes but slightly above them which I took as an IOI. My best interaction with her was while I was cooking something I vaulenteerd to cook (showing value?). She brought me into a conversation she was having by asking if I had an Iphone(ioi?). I said no and took out my very large Samsung note phone. I asked her to hold it(she did) and I remarked at how small her hands were. I jokingly said that I bet even my hands were smaller than hers and I held my hand up which was me wanting for her to put her hand on mine in order to compare size (good kino?). She complied and she in fact did have bigger hands than mine(I have small hands). I then looked at her straight in the eyes and jokingly asked her if she knew what they said about guys with small hands. This escape my mouth without a second thought and I remember thinking "wow wtd did that come from?" She looked at me curiously, as if to say "are you talking about what i think you're talking about?" I've been recently experimenting with letting an "akward" silence marinate while maintaining eye contact and smiling. She broke the silence by shyly laughing and saying "small dick?" I said that yeah that was what they said while laughing and looking away ( I don't know why I did this, I think it was because I couldn't believe I had just asked that so I felt shy). I resumed my smile and eye contact when she playfully said "you are the exception though!" I smiled and looked shyly away again when I was called over by a friend in the living room (I was in the kitchen). As I turned my attention to the calling friend I said excuse me and went over to him. That was the end of the best interaction I had with her that night.

The rest of the night was filled with a lot of social interaction with many of the guests and really thought that I was well liked by everyone I talked to. I unfortunately didn't get another chance to have a long interaction with her due to her talking with friends and also because I was actually having a good time just talking to people. However I made sure to ask her and her friend what they thought of my cooking while I walked by and they were eating. I got big smiles and "awesome!" as a response.

Some notes:

-she was an hb8, someone I would have normally never even tried to talk too. Seddit and working on my inner game has helped a ton at overcoming anxiety towards cute girls

-I tried my best to project confidence with my posture, eye contact, neutral tone and slow speaking manner and generally avoiding akward tendencies like fidgeting with hands

-hb8 walked by me a few times while I was talking to others and I always felt her brush past me (one time her ass even brushed my hand, which she shyly said she was sorry about). I don't know whether this can be taken as an IOI or just coincidence due to the space she was trying to walk through. It was narrow but not tight.

-I left feeling amazing. I only had half a cup of champagne and turned down all blunts passed my way. I really felt good just cooking for, talking and befriending many strangers at my first house party.

-You could say I was in a good state of mind that night because everything I said flowed out naturally and I didn't stay in my head like I usually do. I kept the social juices flowing by jumping from person to people to person.

-I'm 21 and the party I was invited to was due to being invited by a coworker amog that I work with. Me and him get along fine. The only person I knew there was him but I surprisingly didn't hang around him for most of the night.

-I didn't close hb8 but I when I said goodbye to everyone she came over and gave me a hug and told me that she was glad to have met me. She pressed her cheek with mine and I felt it lasted a bit longer than normal. I think this is my imagination at play but I took it as in ioi.

-I try my best to interact with females but I've yet to close any since I started with Seddit about 1.5 months ago. I've also yet to do a legit cold approach. I just haven't even tried. I've recently started to feel like I should.

-I typed this on my phone and thanks for reading. I'm looking forward to any feedback!