so it's been about 8-9 months since I've been out to a pub/club due to some personal issues that I was working through. But I'm now at a stage in my life where I have a job, have some money, and this bit might sound a bit weird but I know myself a whole lot better. I know my values and I'm going to stick to them.

It had been a long week at work and I also did a Saturday shift so I wasn't really in the mood, but my mate convinced me to come out. after getting ready he picked me up and went to one of his friend's houses for pres. meet blonde HB8 and HB7 and one more male friend, who I was introduced to. he also knew HB8 and HB7.

My friend and the other male disappear for a while which I thought was weird so I'm left making small talk with the HB7, I try and Include HB8 in the conversation with eye contact and asking her direct questions towards her, I compliment her house etc. but again... still cold.

HB7 initiates small kino while talking to me, I say something she agrees with and she gives me a little tap on the knee or something. they are a little drunk HB7 maybe a little more then HB8.

The other guys come back So we call a taxi, HB7 jumps in the back seat, I'm not near her at the moment so I don't rush in next to her, I play it cool and get in next to the HB8. When we arrive at the bar we are going to, me and the other guy get denied access because of "dirty shoes" apparently that's a thing. I jokingly start to bitch about not being perfect. Both girls agree and start talking about how it sucks to be a girl going out, having to wear the right clothes or whatever.

We change location to this bar that was just pumping, the music was loud, the drinks were flowing and there were outdoor couches surrounding these out door heaters, we grabbed a drink and headed for a couch.

"whats up ?" I ask "you going to buy me a drink or what?" I joke she says something about something, we talk we flirt, she tries grabbing my arm and I jokingly say something like "hey hands off, its $50 an hour to touch" she smiles. "I'm just kidding first hug is free" we hug it out. and she ends up in my arms, still talking and flirting, my fingers are gently stroking her thighs, she comes in close, our noses rub and we start making out a little.

her phone is sitting on the table and I pick it up, and say something about how annoying other peoples phones are, she trys to take the phone off me but I'm too quick and pull it away from her, and quickly ninja add my number to her phone and give it back. so its still on the add contact page, making it obvious what I was doing.

I take charge and stand up and tell them we are location hopping, we all get up and go to a club, we make out some more in the line, and she gets all talky with other guys, I don't care she can talk to whoever.

We get seperated in the club, I grab a drink and start dancing with a few HB6's HB7's and HB8's. couple are going with it, a few give me a dirty look. fuck that noise, I don't need their approval. I'm out having a good night, I'm a little drunk and just enjoying the music, and just dancing.

Later in the night I find the HB7 I was making out with and we get to dancing, shes grinding all up in my space, more making out ensues. we go out for a smoke and talk about something deep, don't really remember. I get talking to another guy who's smoking, he has 2 hot friends with him, I introduce myself and get talking to them for a while, just asking about their night, very light casual stuff. we finish smoking and the rest of our group is coming out of the club.

We pile into a car 7 people in a 5 seater car, I end up in the boot (trunk) with HB7, its dark, its hot, we are making out, hands going everywhere, not really looking to F-close in the boot of a car so not really upset at the LMR after I unhook her bra.

This was my first night out in like 8 months or something and it was amazing! I was in state all night, talking to everyone, be it the girl in front of me at the ATM or the guy in line for the toilet, I tried to talk to the people I was dancing with but it was far too loud. I met about 5 people that I conversed with, only got 1 number though and I had insanely hot make out session in the boot of a car, all in all a fun night.

She texted me in the morning and we are going out next week.

Lesson learnt: just go out! you never know what the night will bring.

tldr: First night out in 8 months, in state all night, expanded my social circle, met a whole bunch of awesome people in a night, talked and flirted with a HB7 and ended up making out in the boot of someones car.