Back Story-18 Year Old was never really sociable until recently I would have been introverted for most of my life but having taking getting dumped by my ex badly I decided I was going to make the most of my life in every field, I have seriously started to change and I think that the ethos of the seddit community is perfect for my self-growth at this age. Have only recently started going out to clubs/bars etc. so everything is very foreign
I was invited out to a friends birthday party recently and decided that tonight would be the night I would finally meet new people. So after reading Above The Game and Models and trying some of TofuTofu's exercises I believed I was ready to do some sets but it's one thing to say and another to do haha
I arrived to the party late and as soon as I arrived I introduced myself to some people and just got some conversation going, after that I started to feel a bit more confident and saw a HB6 I wanted to talk to, I made my way over and she nearly fell so I grabbed her and introduced myself I asked her nearly right away how her night was and she just walked away, this severely hurt my confidence and although I seen someone I would like to approach I would talk myself out of it, dissapointed in myself in retrospect but its the fist night I'm sure that's a common theme (Hopefully)
Near the end of the night I saw a HB8 and finally decided that I was going to approach (Kind of pathetic I know) So I sat next to her and opened strongly
Me: Hey I absolutely love your hair and if I didn't introduce myself I'd be raging at myself, I'm conalmcgl
HB8:(Looks taken aback) umm what?
(This put me off slightly)
Me: Haha I'm conalmcgl hows your night been?
HB8: its alright, far too warm in here
The conversation continued on and I tried kino throughout, touching her upper arm, touching her lower back which she didn't seem to mind so I thought things were going fine
HB8: I have a boyfriend you know....
Me: So do I, mines is hotter I bet (I then showed her a picture of Oiliver Giroud don't ask haha)
This made her laugh and she said she didn't really have a boyfriend so I asked her
Me:So you don't have a boyfriend why can't you kiss me?
She laughed to herself and she mumbled something
Me: Am I really that unattractive that you can't kiss me?
She laughed and she finally gave in and told me to kiss her
After that I spent a bit of time talking to her, I was the first person she's kissed since she broke up 3 months ago I consider this a bit of a success as she was a very attractive girl and no doubt was hit on by other boys :)
Obviously this is a pretty bad FR, although I did get a K-close I couldn't really get her to open up to me and I didn't really find out what type of a person she was or anything like that so there was definitely a lot of things I could improve on
Tl;Dr: First night out, spent most of it with my friends and only made one approach still got a K-close but no #-Close. Inner game needs a lot of work, Goal for next night- Approach, approach, approach
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