So I've made a large change from AFC to being myself undiluted. A few months ago I came out of a long, serious relationship that I wasn't ready for. Since then, I've killed oneitis and stopped dealing with bullshit from everyone I know. After getting myself in gear, I decided to start pinging an old friend.

Now, this girl is sexy as hell but doesn't really get much attention because she is really shy and hard to get to know. So we get to talking on facebook. I try to keep the pace slow and make her wait on me. It worked well, to my surprise. For me, I just had to occupy myself with playing a game or taking a walk after each ping.

I keep pinging every other day and one night I call her because my plans fell through for the next day. She sounds eager to talk and we make plans to go to a comic book store for their 17th anniversary open! I'm happy but I try not to make a big deal out of it so I watch King of the Hill and chat some females up on facebook.

Next day comes and I'm excited to see her. I call her and she says that it is cool to pick her up. She lives about a half hour away so she asked if she could make the trip any easier. I replied with "road head is always helpful." She loved it. Bitches love jokes.

I arrive and pick her up. She pokes me a few times on the way there and we have fun conversation. I don't make amazing eye contact, but much better than I used to. We stay there for a while and I buy her candy and feed it to her.

It's going pretty well as she's pretty interested in me and I'm kinoing pretty well. The farthest I went was whispering things in her ear. I didn't really want to k-close as it just felt wrong to. We were both having a great time the way things were.

We went to a bookstore to wander and we cuddled in a corner whiles reading. Afterwards I dropped her off and she hugged me really tight. Right before she left she said "on a scale of 1-10, today was a 10."

I just left a voicemail on her phone (5 hours after the date) saying I had fun and want to do it again. Any advice guys? Not really with her, but just in general? I find it hard to escalate kino to a kiss or higher. I feel like she will become uncomfortable and upset.

Anyways, may you all get laid tonight!