I was pretty depressed in Middle School/Junior High. Not suicidal, at least I don't think I was. I was obsessed with this one girl. I have no idea why, I just was. I knew I had no chance with her. So, I hated life during those years. I recently started High School, and knowing I didn't want to wallow in self-pity, I decided to make new friends. About 2 weeks in, I found one girl I really liked. I made friends with her and her friends, all the while almost crying from tears of joy. One of them even asked me out! ME. As I am crying from tears of joy, I have gotta say, it was a million times easier than I thought. Now I really enjoy life. I can honestly say that. So, if you are a loser, and you keep putting off finding love, man the hell up and do it. It is reachable. Good luck!