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See HB8 at her work. Sees me smoking blunt. says "hey you should let me hit that!" Let her hit it. Says "Awww thank you!" and introduces herself. I take that as an IOI and #-close her by using Plausible deniability by saying "you should let me have your # so we can smoke sometime" Enthusiastically says "Yeah! I'm totally down for that!" I text her immediately after we go our separate ways saying I'll shoot her a text sometime later in the week to smoke. She agrees.
I text her the next day inviting her out to go on an adventure with me but doesn't respond. I knew she would be more likely to flake because I didn't really game her prior to #-closing, I just went in and said 'fuck it" and asked for it without really gaming.
So I text her the day so I could set up a "smoke sesh" later on in the week, says she would be down later on the same day but I had shit to do so I suggested the next day.
She texts me the next day saying "smoke with me Afeni02!"
This is where the logistics begin and we agree to meet up at X but I didn't know my way. (Really gotta work on learning my street names and keep going out)
We meet up and gets in my car. Says "Gosh, I look horrible today!" I saw it as a shit-test and playfully replied "geez, I know" Agree and Amplify! She looked at me and smiled. I smirk. Shit-test passed. Value +10
I start rolling a blunt and we begin conversation and during the conversation she drops the bf-bomb saying "My baby daddy was getting made because I told him I was gonna smoke with you" My mind as soon as she said that I avoid saying something like "You have a baby/you have a bf?!" I say "tell him we're just smoking, there's no harm" At this point I need a light so she goes and gets one from her car.
This is where it starts to get crazy She returns with her bf and hands me her lighter. Her boyfriend furiously asks "Are you trying got get with my girl huh?!" and starts to go full AFC on me. I keep my cool and AMOG him by being non reactive but I came out with an AFC-like response by giving him the full run down of how I #-closed her and that we're just Innocent smoking, there's nothing going on here. (I feel like I should've said, yeah, I find your gf attractive but had I know she had a bf, I would've never asked for her number" but didn't) He says "You can have her!" and storms out to his car. HB8 follows him and they start to get in an argument and she starts to cry. I proceed to smoke my blunt.
She comes back to get her lighter and smoke. AFC follows her and they proceed to fight while I smoke. AFC starts calling her names, saying she gets around etc. I say "bro, it ain't even like that, we're just smoking" AFC furiously responds "STFU! I'M NOT TALKING TO YOU! MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS BITCH!" I keep my frame and remain non-reactive. I give no response. (Did I do the right thing?)
I give HB her lighter back and hand her the blunt, hands it back and sobbingly says "sorry" and we went our separate ways.
DAAAAAAAMNNNNNNNNN!! Pretty fucking crazy for a first #-close/escalation! I haven't contacted her since but plan on contacting her tumarrow because she seemed like a cool chick and I'm still attracted, I didn't get to KINO/Escalate or nothing because of all the baby-mama-drama. I plan to in the next few days but am contemplating on whether or not I should. or if I should just move on and get more #s and set up more "dates"
So Seddit! What did I do right and where can I improve! Criticism/ feedback please seddit!
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