Following the action items in AtG Part 3. Going out to approach 10 girls with good body language, smirk, eye contact and get close. Gotta push myself outside my comfort zone. Here's the FR:

  • Went to the big bar street in town. Intended to go to Bar A. Looked inside, bunch of groups sitting at tables. Not an easy environment to approach. Bar B looked dead. Went to Bar 3.
  • Walked up to Bar 3 and saw cute girl outside. As I got closer she was exchanging numbers with another girl. Hard set to open, passed them up.
  • APPROACH #1: Walked inside. Saw cute girl. Approached. (Holy fuck I did that? Seriously I went straight from the door and made a beeline towards her group and introduced myself to the group. That’s nuts). I smiled, kept eye contact with the girl (She stared right back and had that look in her eye, holy fuck she was attracted to me just because I approached her! What is this nonsense). Turns out she just got engaged! Good for her. I gave her a hug (!!!) and congratulated her and her fiance. Talked to her for 30sec-min more and went on with my mission.
  • APPROACH #2: Saw girl I knew from College. Said Hi and made small talk. Looking back eye contact wasn’t good, but I also wasn’t interested in her. Hugged her though. TBH I don’t know if she remembered me. I look at lot different.
  • Walked around looking for another set. Saw a dude sitting by himself. Introduced myself to him and made small talk. Doesn’t count as an approach cause there was no chick, but I was staying in the moment. I saw him by himself so I went up to talk.
  • APPROACH #3: Walked around looking or another set. Walked outside. Said hi to 1/1 mixed set. They were polite but were disinterested. Went back inside.
  • APPROACH #4: Saw girl I knew from town who I was interested. Kept Eye Contact with her and got close! HOLY FUCK SEXUAL TENSION WHAT IS THIS. I was constantly touching her and it felt right and natural. I hugged her a few times and kept touching her on the shoulder/arm. Entry level touching stuff but still THE SEXUAL TENSION HOLY SHIT. Said bye and kept on moving.
  • APPROACH #5: Said hi to 2m/1f mixed at bar. They were like “Who the fuck are you” so i kept movin on.
  • APPROACH #6: Walked toward girl waiting for bathroom. Said to her “Waiting for the bathroom huh?” She said “yep”. Lol. Dumb Approach. Still counts though.
  • Thought about approaching 5f set at around the bar, but it was a closed circle. Didn’t approach cute girl sitting at the end of the bar either that I could have. Then I left Bar 3.
  • This all happened in under 15 minutes.

Lets take a break for a moment.

I JUST APPROACHED 6 GIRLS IN UNDER 15 MINUTES.

WHAT IS GOING ON.

HOLY SHIT.

I AM ON FIRE.

  • I walk outside and am so unbelievably amped up. I am fist-pumping the air. Jumping up and down waiting to cross the street. I’m walking on air. I can’t believe what I just did.
  • I UNDERSTAND WHAT CONFIDENCE IS NOW. Jesus christ. I totally understand the “Alpha/Awesome” mentality. It will take a lot of work to extend that to all areas of game, but I GET IT NOW. It has nothing to do with being sure you’ll succeed. It’s has everything to do with not being afraid to fail. When you see a girl you think is cute you approach because you FUCKING WANT TO. You might have anxiety about it but you DO IT ANYWAY. There is no delay. There is no holding back. You fucking go for it.
  • I walk past the girl from Approach 1 as I walk to another bar and I hear her say “I wish I had confidence like that”. Who me? Hahahahhahahaa.
  • APPROACH #7. Walked over to Market Ave and saw a mixed set with some dogs. Asked if I could pet the dogs. I did and then left.Not a real approach but I’m counting it.
  • APPROACH #8. Walked inside and immediatley talked to a three mixed set. Introduced myself and a moment later the girl walked away. Oh well, talked to one dude about the cavs for a bit
  • APPROACH #9. Saw 3f set. Approached. Seriously this shit is ridiculous now. I didn’t even flinch. I saw an opportunity and just went for it. No anxiety, no nothing. I think this is what they call “being in the zone”. Had great eye contact with super hot chick. Asked if I could sit down. Made a mistake by getting another chair when there was already one open. Because one girl’s BF was there. The hell? Dude just take the seat the other BF can get another chair. Big mistake. It was a wide open shot and I just completely misfired. Screwed up the whole conversation I had with them because of that move. Sat awkwardly. Wanted to leave but sat there trying to find an opportunity to leave. Dude if you want to leave just get up and leave. No biggie. The girl was totally digging me for a second though.

OK SO I DIDNT DO 10 FUCK YOU IDGAF. Haha.

That was incredible.