Hello Seddit, today I'm going to share to you my first tinder date.

Before we met up We matched up on tinder (duh), got her number, and set up a date. I always try to to number close on Tinder within 5-10 messages. Asked her if she wanted to talk over coffee, she said yes, ect.

before the date I finish work, took a shower, listen to my favorite music, and got ready. My outfit could have been better, but I was running late, so I just wore a t-shirt, jeans, and shoes (the colors all looked good together).

At the place I get there 10 minutes early. I tell the cashier that it's my first time here, so he recommended me his favorite cup of coffee. I order it, tip a dollar (good karma), and messaged her. Told her that I was wearing a green shirt. She tells me what she is wearing and now looking for parking.

The Date She walks in, and I get up and shook her hand, and offered to pay for her coffee. I tell the cashier that it is her first time here also.

I pulled up the chair and we start asking each other questions about school, work, life, ect. I'm doing 70/30 of the talking (must of been the coffee). I did no kino what so ever (expect giving her a hand five), although I made good eye contact. She kept playing with her hair. Anyways I try to get out of Interview and ask her if she wanted to walk around.

So we're walking on the streets talking, and I walk near the road (safety), and we're talking. Again could have Kino, but I didn't know how to go about it. Eventually I walk her to her car and I give her one of those side hugs. She paused for a second, I could have gone for the K-close, but I have bad luck K-Closing on dates.

Overall I had fun on the date, which matters the most. Haven't been on a date for years.

What Did I Learn Dress Nice I was wearing nice clothes, but it wasn't the best outfit I could have made. Plan your outfits a day in advance.

Kino It separates the boys from the men.

Always be risky higher the risk, higher the reward.

Questions What can I do as a person to improve on tinder dates?

How do I stop going into Interview?

What do you guys usually wear on dates?

How do I kino? How can I practice?