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It started Friday night. I had to run to the local watering hole (walmart) to get a phone charger. While there looking for the correct phone charger A short, petite and adorable girl comes right up beside.

Me: what kind of phone do you have?

Her: "ooh." *smiles, a Samsung (I don't remember).

Me: ah! Does yours have the double charger like mine?

Her: "what?!" *leans closer to see my phone. "Yours takes two?!"

I show her and we introduce each other. We'll call her A. We talk while both looking for separate chargers when she finds hers she says, "well I should probably go"

Me: Well, A you seem pretty cool. Would you want to hang out sometime? *should have just asked for number or walked up there with her then get her number.

A: umm... I don't think my boyfriend would like that.

Me: *jokingly, We'll we don't have to invite him.

She giggled and I told her to have a good day. As I turned to look at my phone I noticed I left Tinder messaging open. So she may have seen that when I pulled out my phone out to get her number. I was laughing so hard at how I screwed all of it up. It was just hilarious to me for some reason.

Saturday

I was suppose to actually have a date. She said she 'didn't feel well and she is really sorry'. I told it her, 'it's cool. Just hit me up if you feel better or change your mind.' She replied, 'I'm really sorry.' I now know I should have just not said anything back.... I didnt. DAMMIT!

pussy me: It's alright. Maybe some other time. *huge fucking faceplam.

I feel like I should have said nothing to leave her wondering. Is that right? In case she wanted to actually try again?

Sunday, more learning

So Sunday I got to a meet up and a concert. I only go to the meet up because I don't know anyone where I leave. I get to the place and there are about 9 or 10 people. 4 girls. 1 hb7. Of course there are 3 guys sitted around her. We all hangout playing board games and drinking, *not me. This one guy is doing everything to make her laugh but he is very ackward. The entire time anytime I even acknowledged her she smiled and laughed. Her eyes and body followed me. I was seated across the table from her so no way to really do any kino. When I teased she would make that 'I'm shocked face' like if I was close enough she would playfully hit me. It's getting close to time for me head to the concert. We agree for the next time we meet. Everyone parts ways.

I get to the park/concert. As soon as I park my car and leave the garage. I get to the door and I see hb10, easily. She has a yorkie. Sweet! Instant conversation starter. I walk out and of course her dog starts coming up to me. I kneel and pet the dog and she comes over smiling talking about her dog. We introduce each other and talked for a minute then:

Me: So you just out with your dog this evening?

B: no. My husband had to walk to hotel to use the restroom.

*from where I entered I never seen the ring before approach. I then noticed it. I made a some joke and told it was nice to meet her and moved on.

Onward to the concert.

Perfect timing the group I came to see just started setting up. Time to approach someone. I look out across the yard of people.

Me: fuck it.

I was just going to walk through until I made eye contact with a hb8. I turn my head and a see a small blonde with a hat on checking me out. We smile at each other and I just walk right up and introduce myself. No opener, opener. Brilliant.

Her immediately: I love your shirt.

  • wearing a good fitting band shirt . I'm kind of shocked/knocked of guard. I'm didn't expect that.

Me: I like your hat. *should have ended with my grandma has one similar.

We talk about the band's, her going to school, she was 24 but didn't look it. Alot more happened but I didn't even number close and I could have. Or more. I thought about telling her friend I was going to take her away for a minute. But I didn't. I just need more experience. I learned alot. I could have pushed alot more. Looking back she was very into me. Oh well. I just enjoyed the rest of the concert.