--- Background

20 y/o, 169cm. I'm fit but I don't lift heavy, I'm not skinny either. Still having to lose some fat but I'm pretty okay. Wearing a hat and some necklaces. Sorry for my English.

Warning: This is going to long.

--- Field report

So I went to my university to deal with some paperwork. And I thought it was gonna be a good time for practicing. I went around some of the buildings of the campus, tried to do my work there but the office was closed. I was looking for girls but no one catched my attention, there were not so many.

I catched the bus going back and I thought to go for a drink and chill out. So I got off the bus just nearby one of the most crowded street of my town. I was walking and I notice how cold I was, so I decided to do some warm up.

I started asking for compliments, for the time, having a light conversation here and there, and then I went into a big shop. No girl had catched my attention yet, I was really not on the mood.

So at the shop I saw this obviously foreign with her family (not very near) girl looking at some phones and I made eye contact and smiled. I was looking for phones too so I was just walking around. Then I ask her "sorry, do you speak English? (as I said, she was obviously foreign so I was not gonna talk in my original language) - Yes (smiled) - Am I wearing the hat correctly? (I smiled)". She giggled and indicated me to move my hat some inches. I said thanks and smiled and she smiled too.

I got out of the shop and was heading to a close Street to have that drink. Still cold, not on the correct mood so I tried to make eye contact and smiled with any person who walked by.

Grabbed my drink, I talk a little bit with the manager of the shop (have contacts everywhere guys, today it's the fourth free drink I get) and then I walk few meters away and observe the people. Little bit more of eye contact and smiles with random people but not on the mood. Then this manager came out of the drinks place and saw me (only guy with a black hat among a lot of people, nearly impossible not to see me) and asked what I was doing. I was thinking about going to the supermarket so I told him and he asked me to go with him to buy some stuff for his work place before that. Then, at last, this cute HB 8 walks by just when we start walking. First girl in catching my attention in hours. I did nothing, I didn't want to involve this guy on it. I keep walking with this guy. I forced myself into abundance mindset, I'm glad I did it (*).

We go to the shop he were heading to, bought the stuff and we split at the entrance of the supermarket. Before going to do groceries, I saw these Street little tents where people sell necklaces, rings and so on. I thought "I've been wanting a ring for a while, let's get one". Then I walked around the streets nearby for some time trying to warm up again. But nope, didn't go well.

Then I got into the supermarket. I didn't feel completely on the mood so I kept making eye contact and smiled from time to time.

I did my groceries, I looked around if any girl at the supermarket catched my attention but no femalw less than 45 y/o was there at that hour.

I got out and then I went to a near shop (called Tiger, British people may know it, I don't know any other country that has it) to buy some of my favourite candies.

Just right after walking into the shop I saw this girl from behind, HB 8 at first, after knowing her a little bit more, HB 9.

Boner power is powerful (*)

so I just thought "oh, last chance. Fuck it" and I walked to her. Said:

"excuse me, do you speak Spanish? (obviously, in Spanish)

  • Yeah

  • Great. I was going to buy some candies but I've seen you and I think you are very attractive so I came here to say hi (strong eye contact and smiled)". She giggled and broke eye contact first, "Haha, well, thanks

  • What's your name? (weird handshake, we both had our hands busy)

  • TigerGirl

  • I'm Kartalis. So tell me, what do you like to do for having fun?

  • I like to go to expositions and

  • Wait, really? Aleluya. I don't usually find people who like them

  • Yeah me neither :) (I know I should not have interrupted but I was really excited for it). I like to go to micro-threater too.

  • Oh, what's that (she explains). Oh, that sounds cool (I mention here one of my friends who happens to be an actor and that he mentioned me some of that a while ago).

Here I made kino by taking her hand and looking at her fingernails, painted like a cute insect. She laughed hard and said "Yes, I know, I have an obsession". I asked what she means while still holding her hand and she confessed she paints her fingernails differently every week.

We made a little bit more of light conversation about ourselves, our studies and travels, and I asked her some open questions like which is the most exciting experience she remembers, investing a lot, and I get to know her a little bit more.

I treat her like she is a friend (not very close because I was really cold today but still) and I always make good eye contact. The shop has these weird corridors where we walk around and look at any cute stuff that catches our attention. I'm still doing light kino (slight touches on her arm with the back of my hand and so) and smiling, but my voice is always relaxed and calm. Secure. I walk around the shop on my own, not following here. When we get to the line, I take my candies and I point (wrongly) which register is open. She then asks me "Would you let me go first? - Mmmm (playfully), okay. Ladies first - Thank you smiles .

I wait till she finishes paying and while she is waiting for her credit card back, I took her hand and I made kino again by looking at some kind of drawing at one of her fingers. She had her hands a little bit busy but I didn't give a Fuck, like I was on my own world. Doing strong eye contact again.

When she has finished, she asks "do I wait for you? - Yes" (this is an IOI in my opinion). I finish my payment and we go out.

She asks me where I'm heading now and we laugh about taking a bus to my home (10 minutes walking from where we were). We walk together having a relaxing conversation and I say

"I'm gonna ask you a question if it doesn't bother you (I'm too nice sometimes, it's my biggest problem) - Okay. I still have the right to not answer it. - Of course. Here it goes. How old are you? - how much do you think? - I'm the worst at this game. I think you are like 26 - Hahahaha no. A little bit less - 22? - Yes, well, this November. And you? - take a guess - 24? - Nope - 26???? - Hahahaha no. - 17? - Nope - But less or more? - More. - 20? - There you go".

We laughed for a little bit while walking and we reached a point where she said "here I leave. There's my bus (few meters away, then she gets closer and says goodbye with kisses on my cheeks which I give back). I hope to see you at the micro-threatres! Remember, on September they come back! - I will :) (I was enjoying so much the conversation I completely forgot about the number).

Then, I'm a lucky man, her bus leaves while she was just right by my side. I told her I was going to walk with her till the bus stop where she had to wait now.

Now I react and say "I almost forgot. You use whatsapp? - Yeah - Good gives her my phone put your number on it. (Not asking for it, shows dominance).

She does it.

We went to the bus stop and we placed our bags at the floor. She happens to smoke and she said " Now I'm gonna do something you will not like takes one cigarette out but I need it. - Hey, you are free. You can do whatever you want. - Yes but some people, friends of mine don't like it, so I hide it - Don't need that with me - Also, hiding it I smoke less. - Good for you. "

Now I jump into building some attraction and I ask "Hey, could you tell me 3 words about the first impression I have made to you? - Mmmm relaxed, active and extrovert. - Mmm, relaxed and active, those joined are tricky - Yeah, but I mean you are calmed and confident but you seem like you move a lot, which is good. - Thanks, I really hate to be still for a long time. Now, could you tell me something you like about me physically? - Hahaha well, I like your outfit - Why? - It's original. Nobody dresses like that. - Thanks. For my part I like your eyes - EVERYBODY tells me that all the time laughs lots - I got it. But I mean the way your eyelashes fall. - I know. There was this guy from Bruselas who told me he could say I was Spanish for my eyes. Since then I look at other people eyes trying to find out if they are Spanish or not - There's a theory about finding out the nationality of the people by their body language but only their eyes...

Little bit more of light conversation and then I say "Just for adding something different, I also like the way you twist your mouth when you smile (Here I'm slowing my voice a little bit and I get a little bit closer. Always making good eye contact. She is the one who usually breaks it. Also little bit of kino putting my hand on her arm).

After the mouth compliment, looking at her lips for a moment, I would have said "I almost could kiss you right now" BUT the way she twist her mouth is one of her biggest self-esteem problems so she put her both hand over her mouth and stepped back breaking eye contact laughing nervously and saying it's really bad. I acted non reactive and said, putting my hand on her hips softly "Well, I still like it". Strong eye contact.

And suddenly, her bus comes.

We say goodbye, against kisses on the cheeks (with the bags a hug was difficult) and I put my hand on her hips and squeezed a little bit.

-I hope to see you on September (micro - theatres) - Or sooner, if I ask you to grab a coffee - No coffee - Tea, I remember *playful smile).

While I was walking away she made me turn by saying "Hey, remember to write to me! I don't have your number - I will ;) Bye!"

One hour later I texted her with a simple commentary about something she was gonna do this afternoon. Something like "good luck with the basket this afternoon ;) - Kartalis" and I have not got any answer yet but now her avatar on whatsapp appears, so that means she has added me to her contact list.

---My thoughts:

I quite miss some questions from her. We both invested a lot, but she didn't ask a lot.

I could have make much more kino, I think. I have to improve.

The power of boner is powerful.

I acted cool but I had fun so I made her to have fun.

I could have been a little bit more aggressive in the building attraction part, idk.

I observed some good IOIs but I'm not an expert on it.

I made great eye contact.

Not forget to ask for the number for heaven's sake.

I'm so glad I forced myself to do it even not being on the mood. I don't like to come back home any day without trying to approach. Ever.

TL;DR After hours not on the mood, even warming up, I forced myself to approach. I had luck, it was fun, I enjoyed and it went well.

Now, guys, please, if you have read everything, tell me whatever comes up to your mind about it. I'd like to improve, and also improve the quality of the FR.

PD: Sorry for the lack of details on the breakout and for the edition. Writing from a mobile.