So here is a transcript of a girl I talked to. I was asking her to go to Ballroom dancing with me, and I got her number. But she said, maybe she would go dancing. So I am not sure whether she will be there? Can I get some advice on my mistakes? What could I have done better? I am a rookie. And have just started reading the site. I was trying to project confidence, be playful and at the same time assertive. Hope I succeeded. It was a facebook conversation (I have known her for a while, and have talked with her before, quite playfully and have had a good response). Also, now that I have her number (I already texted and sent my number) is there anything I should do, that I haven't already done? Or just wait?

I have edited the conversation to remove locations, phone numbers, and emoctions weren't transferred (there where many). The essence of the convo has remained the same, no content changes.

I just realized this is the wrong place to post such things. I am new here and did not know.

Me: hello

Her: hey

Me: how goes life?

Her: life goes as well as it can go and yours?

Me: quite good, actually. :)

Me: ive been learning some new, interesting things

Her: Really? What classes are you taking?

Me: yep who said anything of classes?

Her: So, you're learning interesting things from...life?

Me: that and other things.....

Her: what else is there?

Me: culture

Her: that's part of life

Me: its part of studying too.

Her: So, what is it that you have learned that's so interesting? Enlighten me, oh wise one.

Me: this wise one wishes you to guess....

Her: I would really rather not. I'm looking at disgusting pictures of moths atm, so...

Me: well what i am doing is far more interesting than moths, believe me.....

Her: So, spill!

Me: i have learned to dance!

Her: Ahhh... Nice! Which style?

Me: many styles tango, foxtrot, ballroom

Her: So... contemporary? ah nice! I know Argentine Tango.

Me: ooohhh you must show me sometime? show me what you know and whether you can out tango me.

Her: LOL One cannot out-tango somebody else

Me: oh yes they can. by being sheer awesome!

Her: Umm... no. Tango is danced in pairs. So, it's teamwork.

Me: True. But I just look too awesome while doing it! :D :P

Her: If telling that to yourself makes you happy, who am I to say otherwise? :P

Her: Indeed it does. Where did you learn the tango?

Her: At the Argentine Tango group You?

Me: ahh at the location withheld dance club

Her: Cool when were the classes?

Me: every friday

Her: oh. what time?

Me: 7:00 - 8:00

Her: :(

Me: quite late i know. But that is because I must fit into my busy dancing schedule

Her: what do you mean? are the tango classes available at other times, as well?

Me: I practice by waltzing or tangoing in library with friends.....

Her: b.c the Argentine Tango classes are from 7-10 on Monday nights and I'm busy then LOL

Me: Lol. 7 - 10 is rather late.

Her: Can't imagine the crabby librarians allowing you to do that

Me: oh sure they do. if you dance with them...

Her: Not really. depends on the rest of the day but like I said, I'm busy Monday nights. Sure, sure

Me: i commute and 10 would mean i will get home very, very late.

Her: Yea, it takes me an hour to get home, after my Monday meetings

Me: I take longer so are you busy fridays?

Her: Really?

Me: yep

Her: Sometimes. But mostly I'm lazy on Fridays.

Me: On Fridays I do tango, I practice other dances (in library) in other days of the week I suggest we tango together?

Her: There are dance classes at Gerstien? You were serious?

Me: like they say, 'it takes two to tango' and its not much fun tangoing with librarians

Her: LMAo

Me: no i make the dancing at gerstein

Her: I imagine not ah where?

Me: in the halls and reading rooms.

Her: XD You must enjoy looking like a fool.

Me: Ill tell you truthfully, it quite hard to tango amongst tables

Her: Of course it is!

Me: A fool? Who said that is bad? But I have mastered the art of table tangoing, and Friday I will show you!!

Her: Even if you are good, and that I still have to see, I can't imagine anybody not looking like a fool if they're dancing about at the library You really want me to come to location withheld? groan

Me: Foolery is infectious. Especially if you pull it off like a sir.

Her: :D

Me: location withheld is such a nice place! I love location with held!

Her: it is... but. I'm so lazy once I'm home, I don't want to go out again LOL

Me: Its okay to be lazy, but excerise is good, so that you don't look fat and can out tango me! see if you are fat, you won't be able to keep up!

Her: You didn't just call me fat.

Me: Yes I did! :D :P

Her: No, you didn't :D

Me: Ok, I didn't. :D

Her: Thought so. :D :P

Me: I was just saying that excersie is good for ME so that I don't look fat.

Her: Uh huh

Me: But tangoing (especially aregntinine style) makes me look as skinny as a pickle i think you should join me at hart house

Her: That's strange. Tangoing should make you look elegant Probably Maybe...

Me: I am always elegant.

Her: how much are the classes?

Me: not just when tangoing

Her: is there a dress code?

Me: nope.

Her: send me a website for the page

Me: a website for the page? lol i don't think i can find it, right now

Her: why not?

Me: its hidden deep on the web page and I had troubling finding it

Her: -.-

Me: I suggest you look. perhaps you can find it

Her: You're the one asking me to come. Hence, you should find it

Me: i find the web page very confusing. something a women's mind can only decipher.... :P :D

Her: is that so.

Me: Not at all

Her: :)

Me:so shall I continue dancing with old librarians at the library? or have more appropriate company for my awesomeness? I think the latter.

Her: I don't know. You tell me...

Me: Like I said, I think the latter.

Her: shaking head Which class are you in? link withheld

Me: Ah, i see you've deciphered it. The friday night ballroom whicheverone that is.

Her: This one: link withheld ?

Me: Yep! Congratulations!

Her: It says I have to pay $67. How many classes is that for?

Me: or so too lazy to count

Her: -.-

Me: :D

Her: It's cheaper at the Argentine Tango place

Me: I have already signed up.

Her: too bad

Me: To the hart house one

Her: are drop-ins allowed? in case I want to just check out the place for one class?

Me: I don't see why not.

Her: You should ask your instructors

Me: The instructor lets me do as I wish. I have done this before. I have plenty of friends coming for drop ins

Me: She is okay with it.

Her: so... your friends just drop in w/o paying?

Me: sure

Her: that seems sketch

Me: there are enough people already The instructor wants to expose more people to it.

Her: hmm

Me: I think there is really no decision. Just because I tango far too well.

Her: You're really modest. ;)

Me: I always am.

Her: I still don't know, if I will join. But if I decide to drop by, where exactly is the class?

Me: Room number in link.

Her: It says Pool area on the page. I doubt the lessons are held there..

Me: You know, I could always show you. But for that we need to meet in front of location withheld.

Her: what could you show me? ah hmm

Me: Where it is and how to tango

Her: you don't need to show me how to tango but the first part, yes

Me: We will see.

Her: Indeed, we shall

Me: This is how I tango https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ic4PQ-tnwJw&feature=player_embedded See if you can beat that!

Her: That's not Argentine Tango!! LMAO!! But I love Moulin Rouge

Me: Not Argentine Tango, but Tango nonetheless. So do I.

Her: there's a difference a huuuuuge difference

Me: Trust me, there isn't.

Her: Trust me, there is.

Me: I have danced the Argentine Tango with my instructor.

Me: I still was awesome.

Her: sure

Me: BTW, I think it will be easier to coordinate everything (meeting at location withheld) if I had your number.

Her: I suppose As long as you're not going to spam me

Me: I will :D :P

Her: Then you're not getting it

Me: I didn't want it. Knowing girls, you guys spam very bad.....

Her: Heyyyy!!!!!!! I do not spam my friends.

Me: Hmm

Her: Except one. ;)

Me: Im not sure about that. Prove it.

Her: Prove what? That I don't spam people?

Me: That you don't spam.

Her: How

Me: Give me your number.

Her: that won't prove anything. But if you want it that bad, it's withheld

Her: It will show me if you spam, if you have my number

Her: If I really were a spammer, I just wouldn't message you. Simple as that. Duh.

Me: OH really? All girls always spam me.

Her: yes... strange

Me: Thats how I know girls spam.

Her: You shouldn't generalize. :)

Me: I shouldn't? Then prove it.

Her: why do you have a --------- number? where's that from?

Me: location withheld

Her: Bell better not charge me more...

Me: It won't. Its not long distance.

Her: oh good are you sure?

Me: I always am. 100%

Her: hmm

Me: There is no doubting, that I am always right! BTW, we should meet at location withheld at 6:30. Just to get there on time. I take a while to open my lock, for the lockers

Her: You really need someone to knock you down a few pegs, boi I'm not sure yet if I'll be going...

Me: Knock me down? Never! I always stand when doing tango. I am sure you are.

Her: It's a week away and I might have things come up

Me: Because you want to see how well I tango.

Her: smh

Me: smh?

Her: look it up

Me: No. I smh. At you girls.

You guys are so silly sometimes. I knew one girl, who was afraid to tango, for fear I would out tango her.

Her: Don't try to be clever

Me: Oh. I never try. I am.

Her: you're exhausting

Me: Indeed I am. Otherwise how would I be able to dance?

Her: that doesn't make any sense

Me: It doesn't need to. Or it is beyond female comprehension. Yes I am an evil person.

Her: I'm not going to dignify that with a response

Me:So I will see you at hart house at 6:30 on Friday. I will be there with a friend. You can come dancing with us.

Her: We'll see :)

Me: No we won't. I know you'll be there, if not for anything, but to witness my awesome tangoing skills. Also, I know how to Gangam style dance.

Her: I might just go home and sleep... :) Me: Just like at tango, I am quite awesome at it actually. Im sure.

Her: I really don't see what the big deal with that is. It looks stupid.

Me: The dance is sheer awesome.

Her: Who are you trying to convince? Yourself?

Me: Nobody. I don't need to convince anybody, because I know. I am always right, remember?

Her: You know what people do with broken records?

Me: They throw out broken records, and by new ones. Then play them on their grammophone, and dance the tango.

Her: You sound like one.

Me: A grammophone? That is a complement. I have always wanted to be able to play tango music from my mouth.

Her: Goodnight, my name.

Me: dum, tatum, dum Goodnight. See you Friday. END OF CONVERSATION