Hey seddit, I've been reading a lot of material the past few weeks, first with the mindset of "I'm going to find the perfect way to game women" and eventually coming to the realization that it's not about gaming, it's about enjoying life and being confident (a la Conquer Your Campus). This is my first FR and it’s kind of long, so bear with me.

Anyway, this past night I went to a friend's university to visit/party during prerush. Overall it was an interesting experience since my university doesn't have a greek system. I came into the night with the mindset of "I'm going to have an amazing night and I'm going to get some stories to tell my buds when I head back to school." My friend in particular was absolutely sure I had an f-close waiting for me that night with a girl we both sort of knew. I didn't know her beforehand personally, but I did get in contact with her through some student gov work at school, and she happened to be one of my friend’s orientees during frosho. She definitely pushed to meet up when I came to visit, and this was MONTHS in advance over Facebook. Long story short, I end up sticking with her through most of the night, getting pretty wasted, dancing, making out, hitting up frat house after frat house.

I definitely tried to keep an alpha mindset by getting to know everyone, making people laugh, and basically making sure I was having a great time. It also helped that we ran into people I knew pretty often at almost every house (DHV?). I thought I was doing a good job with the push and pull. I negged her once in a while and I even started talking to other girls around us when she was distracted (ie looking for hard alcohol). However, as the night came to a close, she started to push towards going to at particular frat house where she planned on spending the night (interesting enough her ex-whatever is in that frat) and I basically said we can either go back to her dorm, or she can come with me to my friend's apartment, since I was pretty sure me not being in that frat would be a problem.

The scene unfolded over the course of 15 minutes or so, where I sat down on a bench, made her sit on my lap, as she tried to convince me to go to the frat house. We made out some more and we ended up parting ways. In the end I didn't get an f-close even though I was sure it was in the bag while we were partying...

Was I right in refusing to go with her/walk her to the frat house or should I have gone with her? I feel like it was a good thing that I was able to draw a line as to how far I would pursue her and in the end I still had a blast, just not that many stories unfortunately…

Comments? Opinions? Thanks for reading guys.