Its about 4 in the morning. I just came back from a solo night at a bar and wanted to give my report and maybe get some guidance from the community before i rack stow (go to bed)

A bit about me. Im 22 years old, I have had but a single girlfriend and had sex only once (not the same girl) I am a not what you would expect to be a person looking for tips online for being social and meeting women.

Stong areas: I am pretty damn good looking or so ive been told, I am well rounded. Im in the military, I workout and stay in shape, take Krav Maga and Climb a little. Other than that im a typical guy. I like Football and steak and pussy like any other hot blooded Merican

Weak areas: I am kind of socially anxious. When it comes to people I am trying to know I am a wreck where as when it comes to people i dont give a shit about I am the most social butterfly. This stems from complacency that i have gained over the years. When i was 16 and started getting noticed by girls I didnt have to approach them they always came to me and because of that i have rarely approached any women. I also dont go out with people a lot because they dont ask me and i dont take the initiative because i feel as if i am not bringing anything to the table (i.e being a good wingman and helping us all get laid and plus i havent told anyone that i am not a go getter player they just assume i do OK)

OK so on to my night. I had just came from seing The Hobbit (pretty good) and it was about 7 my options were to drive home 30 mins and MAYBE go out but more than likely i would just say fuck it and play assassins creed, or stay down in Jacksonville and wait until the bars open. (BTW if anyone and i mean ANYONE lives in Jacksonville or north Florida and wants to game with me please contact me. I really feel i could benefit from a wingman who is in the community and can give me a hand) So I say i'll stay and hit a club that is usually poppin on a friday night; $15 all you can drink and tons of girls. So I lay back in my car and watch some videos from Tyler from RSD (BTW if you havent seen or heard of him go look him up on Youtube; the guy has really great seminars and they really get you worked up and ready and willing to go out) At about 1030 I head for the club but alas it is closed maybe even closed down which i really hope not. So i decide to head to the beach and scope the scene I get there and it seems pretty quiet but i say fuck it, 1 drink and ill take it from there. I hit a bar and get a drink and start listening to the band playing. These two guys are drunk as a skunk and Im just bullshitting with them and one of the guys HOT ass girlfriend for a bit to warm up. Then i hit the real bar that is all ahead full in a party. I order a drink and then the music starts getting good so i hit the dance floor and start dancing. So im in the club and everyone around me is having a great time. We're are all dancing with each other and i even got into a little dance battle but i think some of my moves caught the eyes of two girls. Im dancing and this chick tells me to get up on her friend so i do and then eventually im dancing with both of them. Later on that night i move in close to one of them who is really cute and when i come to dance with her she seems a bit thrilled that i did so im thinking TARGET ACQUIRED but i decide to play it cool and not really give her any attention which would be good except for one thing, i didnt talk to her at all. The night goes on the night goes on the night goes on and soon its last call. 0 approaches made so far because im having trouble even mustering up an introduction on the dancefloor. Now in day game i feel like i have now the confidence and knowledge to approach which i will test out tomorrow/later today but as for in the club i am dead in the water. SO its last call and im like OK time to go to work. I approach the target and we introduce ourselves but she immediatly tells me she is waiting for her friend and as i am turning back to address the friend she walks out and the friend helps her deflect me off. OK what ever brush my shoulders off and keep int moving. I leave the club and outside i hear this girl yelling at someone and i yell WHO THE FUCK YOU YELLING AT and she says something playfull so i go in. She tells me that just walking to her car she has been hit on by 4 guys and isnt having it. Then she and her friend see me smoking and say un uh we dont deal with that and i give her a spheal about how i am a licensed cardiologist and advocate smoking and get laughs from it. So she says something back and it leads me to putting my arm around her and walking with her; no resistance. She gets to her car and is still trying to blow me off but im still in it for the time being. Heres where i failed to possibly seal the deal right there and then. At some point she draws her head to mine and now our faces are in close proximity. In a situation where I already have a girls number or we are out on a date or something of that nature IT WOULD BE A WRAP. The hyper sexual alter ego would have gone in for the kiss and it would basically be a done deal (Im told by numerous girls I am a great kisser and i get REALLY sensual with it making girls horny as hell) but i didnt and we break away, she gets in her car and im still trying to make it work by stroking her chin and just being playfull AS THE CAR IS REVERSING. She was still being playfull so i could have still been golden but i just wasnt on my maximum game so eventually they drive away. Last approach was a cute asian girl standing outside another bar. She isnt receptive and i bail out. Night over i go home and jerk it

So heres my assessment

  1. I should have got some conversation with the two girls in the club and kept it minimum because if so I can almost guaranteed i would have pulled a number

  2. I was kind of in state but not fully. In this limp dicked form of state i was in i wasnt being the hyperactive fun energetic guy i sometimes am i was more reserved and kind of ghettoish which made me just look like another nigga who's tryna fuck her that she will blow off

  3. I didnt get into a sexual mode which would have gotten me somewhere with the girl outside the club. ive seen in feild footage where guys are making out with the girl 1 minute after meeting her and i could of done that but i didnt.

  4. On the positive I did approach, i did have a good time in the club and everybody noticed it and i didnt beat myself up after getting blown out which i usually do

A couple of areas i want your help on.

Conversation in the club. How do you start it and how do you let it continue when there is no situational topic i can bring up, they dont have on anything outrageous i can complement and i cant just say what ever is on my mind because my mind is just into the music

And again any Sedditors in the North Florida area who want to "sarge" together let me know I really could use a wing from the community

Well thats all, Im gonna go sleep and hopefully ill do some good daygame tomorow. As Nas AKA Escroe said "Play on Players"

-Enigma out