Was at this birthday party and this girl is a mutual friend, I literally never talked to her because she's objectively out of my league and I imagined she wouldn't want anything with me as she looks like she maintains her social reputation. (I'm a decent guy but she's just way too hot - my friend that saw her the first time that night actually had the same reaction like we all did first time, you get red and sweaty because her and her ass are just out of this world)

Anyhow this time we were often sitting across each other and I managed to catch some eye contact without breaking it first or breaking it by NOT looking down (/r/NoFap modified to fap once a week for maximum testosterone during weekends).

We all went out to this club and I realised that all the other guys were trying to get close to her dancing near her and stuff and I realised this shit isn't going to work out so I literally decided to actually dance by myself and listen to the music which was pretty good, I secretly hoped one of the girls from the bday would join me and then it's a smooth ride, or atleast some girl from the club.

At one point my friend decided to take some girl's hand that actually likes me and try to drag her away (bad move from her as she obviously didn't give him clearance), they were walking passing me by and the girl was like come with us and such, you know, 'save her'. I was like sigh, whatever but this hottest girl appeared out of nowhere and I instinctively grabbed her hand and said let's follow them, we reached the bar and those two were gone, I reckon on the toilet. So I'm actually stuck with this girl now alone and I realise she doesn't hate it, I felt it. I'm frankly shocked and I ask her if she wants a drink, she says yeah we could do that and I do this little trick telling her yeah buy me a drink, there she goes and all that time I'm doing this light kino and talking into her ears as the music is loud, it was a hard drink so we just finished it in a second and I was like yeah let's dance, there I asked her if she lifts weight as she did look like she does and she said yes, I knew that ass was sculpted. All history from there, at one point she had her hands in my pants IN THE CLUB and fuck me for being only 22 and not having my own place.

Plot twist my fears came true, I walked her half-way home as it was too far for me and I didn't want too white knight too much. When we were seperating I asked for her digits in the most I don't give a fuck manner and she was like, mm maybe e-mail? Being fucked over literally 3 days ago the same way (She offered Facebook) I laughed and said nah I'm not taking your e-mail, maybe we see each other some other time and she was like yeah and kissed me again, I reckon I might see her again sometime but I'm sad she didn't give me her number as losing a V-card to a 9 (Obviously problems of not having your own place and fear of relationships) sounds amazing. I could actually have something to say when I tell people I lost my V-card @ 22 and not earlier, society pressure I know.

TL;DR

  • B-day party, a 9 girl who I never thought I could score so didn't even bother was there
  • At the club we RANDOMLY bumped into eachother I grabbed her hand and followed our friends through the crowd
  • At the club's bar I told her to buy me a drink
  • Went to the dancefloor with her and got her so horny I was afraid she'd fuck me there infront of everyone
  • Experienced what it feels like to score a girl that literally every guy at the party and club was checking out and making comments with their buddies. Amazing.

TIPS THAT WORKED FOR ME

  • Confidence, confidence, confidence. Stand straight so people see you value yourself, you're valuable and you're a prize for her just like she's a prize for you.

  • /r/NoFap - masturbate once a week, preferably Sunday when you probably won't go out and hit on girls. It's proven to increase testosterone (science) and confidence + drive for sex/life (pseudoscience but works).

  • Smell good

  • Nice clothes, not just new clothes, ask your fashionable friend to pick stuff for you

  • Lift weights seriously, not just so you can say you hit the gym, you need to look like you hit the gym, took 3 years for me but I'm unordinarily tall, shorter guys get same results within a year of proper training

  • Research kino

  • Don't be afraid of expressing you're a sexual man (this is what I have issues with and I'm working on it, dirty talk for instance makes me uncomfortable)

  • Treat women just like you treat your buddies, don't put them on a pedestal, if she say something dumb call her out if you would call your buddy out, if she wants something unreasonable don't go with it just because you think it will increase your chances, it just might lower them actually.

  • Seperate yourself from the crowd, if this girl has an amazing ass she knows it and everyone compliments her for it, now realise that and compliment her hair for instance.

  • A website that taught me a lot - www.girlschase.com