I recently created a thread asking why is it so hard to game in South Beach and got some great responses. I went out alone tonight to a cool low key spot, just got back and thought to share my first FR experience in South Beach.

Early on in the night I was at a bar near a group of friends celebrating and having a fun, I know I looked like low status because I was alone not having really having fun, I tried working my way into the group by chatting up the dudes but they were very unresponsive, I think they understood I was using them to get to the girls. A bit later I started small talk with one of the girls who as pretty bland and dry, she answered by questions but wasn't very enthusiastic - this my fault as my energy was low and I wasn't feeling it at this point.

Later on my buddy joins me at the bar and I see a girl by herself not too far (a solid 8, and she's dressed casually, turns out she's Brazilian and after looking at her pics, she's fucking smoking) I start small chatting her like hey anything you recommend here, where you from, etc. and noticed she was pretty responsive as my energy was better and I was more vocal as if I owned the place.

Tip: I noticed I game a lot better when I express myself loudly and don't give a fuck who hears, I have some inner demons where I'm worried about being judged so most of the time I'm quiet or just about right, which gives off low energy.

With my friend around me I felt moral support, so small chatting across the room I was loud and bold. I noticed she was responsive so I was like damn I should find her (she mentioned she's alone here). About 10 minutes later I see her walking out and I catch up to her and say hey where you going. We continue small talking a bit and I knew that if I don't hook her then I lost it because she's already on her way out. After about 2 minutes I see a chair next to me, and as I ask another question I sit down on the chair at the table, forcing her psychologically to mirror my actions since we're in the middle of a conversation.

As she sits down, for the next hour we start chatting. First just basic general things, eventually into more personal, comfort building stuff - I do the cube test which takes the comfort to the next level, followed by the trust test where I squeeze her hands and see if she squeezes back etc. This was a great way to escalate kino and she was really responsive. She gave me plenty of IOIs.

At this point we're sitting close with our legs almost touching and I constantly indirectly touch her legs during the convo. Then we start asking deeper questions such as when was her first kiss, etc, and she spontaneously asks me my age to which I tell her to guess, and she guesses 24. I tell her I'm 25, which I'm actually only 21, and she tells me she's 33.

I take that as a 'oh cool, I've always wanted to game an older chick'. About an 1-2 hours in we built a lot of comfort and start talking about kissing and sexual topics. We had an intimate conversation about kissing, we were really close and staring into each others eyes, then I try to kiss her and she laughs it off and says she won't kiss me because I'm too young.

I try to neg her for thinking like that saying shit like oh you can't keep up with me, I like older women, my ex was older, etc. Then something interesting happened when I told her "I don't know why, but for some reason I like you. I don't want to like you, but I can't control how I feel and I just do. It sucks"

She was really curious and asked what I liked about her, and I teased her saying I'm not going to tell her, but after a few teases I told her very Mystery type things that I like about her and she concurred.

I tried embedding the whole "us" idea into her head saying stuff like "oh we can go there for our wedding" "doesn't this feel like our honeymoon" etc just to try to make the idea of her being with a younger man ok.

She asked if I wanted to see where she's staying so I walked her and once we got there after some small talk we hugged it out and parted ways.

I went back to the place, saw a 2 set sitting alone and opened with a "hey do you have a twin sister" and showed the friend a picture of a girl I know who looks exactly like her. We got a good laugh and a good conversation started, they were sitting I was standing and there were no chairs around (this fucked me up eventually)

I was at my highest point in terms of game, running a hot 2 set, getting them to laugh, negging the really hot one, running routines, it was plain awesome, If I had a wing there that would've been a closed set. Then I knew I shit was about to hit the fun when I realized there were no chairs around and impossible for me to join then, and I knew I was going to end up as the dancing monkey. After about 15 minutes of talking with them and having a good time (I can unbiasly say this was a really good 2 set conversation for me) one of them politely said "alright well nice to meet you, we're going to get back to our convo". I knew this was going to happen since I had no way of becoming part of their world and I was the dancing monkey.

Would love to hear your guys' thoughts, any tips and feedback would be appreciated!