I'll keep this as short as I can.

Girl I have oneitis for, we'll call her B, we've hooked up a couple times, I asked her for a date, she passed, but we still hang out a lot. We're at the bar the Thursday night, I start making out with her friend S. For the past couple weeks I've noticed S chasing me, so finally made a move. S was having a party on Saturday night, was begging me to go, so I did, B was not at this party. At the party I'm dancing with S, kissing her a bit, trying to escalate, and I get blown out or shit test or something. S says to me "I was told B was really jealous at the bar the other night, I don't want to start anything if I'm getting in the way of anything" I respond by telling her I'm not interested in B, there is nothing going on between me and B, she says "Good" and we kiss for a little bit more but nothing really happens the rest of the night, she says if we're going to start something she wants to go on a date and doesn't want to be a drunk hookup.

Also at this party is K, for some damn reason K wanted to talk to me about B. Wanted to know what the story behind B and I was. I said lets go sit down and talk somewhere else, we head to the kitchen, just us. Told her the history of B and I and then disqualified B...I could tell i was showing some DHV to K when I was disqualifying B, and K says, "You can do much better than B".... K was flirting and touching me the rest of the night.... K was heading out so I got her number, I stayed because I was trying to get with S.

Sunday night, dinner party/lobster bake at my neighbor's apt. B, S and K are all there. S was standoffish, K was hanging on me and flirty, putting her arm around me, resting her head on my chest, I was giving her a neck massage. B and I were normal friends like usual. S and K want to head out, B came with K to the party and then asks me, "I want to see your place, can you bring me home later?"

B comes over, we have some wine, I sit on the couch, she sits on a different couch, I get up to go sit next to her. We put a movie on, and we're going through photos on her phone, I'm kinoing a bit, but she keeps stopping me. Then she reaffirms that we are just friends.

SO, let me get this right, B won't hook up anymore, and I can't hook up with others because B gets jealous....WTF. I want this girl out of my head, and I want her to get out of my way when I'm trying to get with someone else.

I have another dinner party with these girls again tonight... K lives downstairs from the dinner party, I'm going to try to get back to K's place by the end of the night.

So why is this girl jealous and then won't be with me? Why does her friend K feel the need to inquire about B and I?? Its messing with my head.