To preface this, I'm a 17 year old guy in London who recently got tinder. At my age tinder isn't really a platform for dating, but more of an ego boost, thus I never really expected to meet someone from tinder in real life. I'm a confident guy, but meeting someone on tinder just seemed out of the ordinary for me.

Anyways onto the field report. I had talked to the girls for just under a week, and what started as mild chit chat transgressed into flirting after getting to know each other a little more. This turned sexual very quickly and she was very eager to meet the next day. Now normally by this point I had lost interest and went on to the next match, but this one was different. I agreed and so we arranged to meet the next day.

On the day we met, as usual I was late (like any Pakistani...) and I hugged her and led her to the park. Whilst walking I realised she was far less 'banterous' than on chat, and so I found I was leading the conversation, which was fine because I love talking. She asked why i didn't seem nervous, to which I said something cocky I can't quite remember, to which she laughed at. We arrived at the park and sat down in an area isolated from people. We both knew why we were there, but I knew I would have to initiate any sort of contact, so, going through the escalation ladder I worked my way up to full on make out within 5 minutes. She was a bit timid being in a park, but that quickly went away and by the end she was eager to give me a hj. I was a bit hesitant but thought fuck it. Once I finished I told her I had to leave (yeah probably cold but fuck it I wasn't going to see this girl again and I had to go to my bro's house). I walked her back to the station and left.

All in all a pretty decent experience I would say. If I had to rate my performance, I thought I did quite well. Kino was initiated well, and I was confident in my approach.

Things I could probably do better on:

  1. being on time for meetings lol
  2. Getting to the spot quickly, I spent 20 minutes trying to figure out where the hell I was going.
  3. The Finish. Probably didn't end it the best way.

Anyways cheers lads