TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

sloshslapper Archive

View 11 posts and 148 comments by sloshslapper on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
4

First quality post I have caught here in a while. Great point. Well put. Thank you.
/r/seduction05/04/15 07:52 PM
13

Eeeh, you might want to redefine your conception of classy.
/r/seduction29/03/15 12:25 AM
2

A potluck is perfect. Especially if you are hosting. It is a situation where you are structurally leading the group, even if you don't do the whole "alpha" spiel. You will be surrounded by your friends and they will provide you with social proof. There is literally no reason not to invite her to that dinner. Just remember that isolation is still usually necessary if you want to make a move.
/r/seduction21/03/15 09:20 PM
2

Let me be clear... you do have a superiority complex, and that is a turn off. Girls don't want to date you because they can feel you judging them to determine whether you are better than them... which regardless of whether or not you are, you will always be able to fool yourself into thinking you are. Stop judging people and start getting into the human experience. Your ego is your greatest weakness and it is fueled by your greatest strengths. It's time for you to marginalize those strengths and…
/r/seduction21/03/15 08:24 PM
9

You can respond almost any way you want as lone as you don't disagree with her about it. Don't tell her that she is wrong about how smart you are. Say Thanks. Agree and escalate. Counter compliment "And you're very good looking. Imagine the potential!" The best thing to do is what feels right to you. If you do it wrong you will know it by how she reacts and you will try something different the next time. Seduction is a "learn by doing" kind of thing.
/r/seduction21/03/15 08:09 PM
1

Alright bud, I've got bad news and good news. The bad news is that, yeah, you kinda goofed by not making a move when she was leaning on her car. The important thing she probably wanted to tell you is, "Kiss me you idiot." By not making any move at all on the first date you have set your schedule as a long term one... I don't know if long term dating is what you want having just come out of a relationship... but that's what you've got now unless you correct that course. The good news is that she …
/r/seduction19/03/15 05:00 PM
1

I wouldn't want a girl telling me on the first date that I am being auditioned against another guy, so I have to say that /u/djohnayes has the right of it.
/r/seduction14/03/15 07:08 AM
1

The etiquette: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." The reality: That is pretty tough to reconcile with wanting to date a whole bunch of people without telling them about the others.
/r/seduction13/03/15 11:51 PM
1

You are 18. You do not know who you want to marry. That's the good news. The bad news is that seddit can't help you win a specific girl who you already have a set dynamic with.
/r/seduction09/03/15 08:25 AM
3

Sounds like she feels like she is being taken for granted. Do something fun with her without occasion. Get your Casanova on. Put some effort in and make sure she knows that if she expects you to be interesting and spontaneous then she should be doing likewise. Most of all... ask her what she wants before you ask seddit what she wants.
/r/seduction09/03/15 08:22 AM
1

Yes. You said.
/r/seduction08/03/15 05:31 PM
2

I downvoted you. I'm sorry, but I think it was justified. I hope you can overcome your anxiety.
/r/seduction06/03/15 08:11 AM
3

Day Game isn't hard. It's a matter of awareness. If you see a woman who doesn't look like she will be bothered by an approach then there's nothing wrong with it. Day game is much more conducive to the sort of romcom meetings that are supposed to feel like they "just happened." It certainly depends on a person having more going for them than some ubermacho body language, but if you have a thought in your head, and the confidence to make the approach happen, then daygame can be a lot of fun. Sourc…
/r/seduction05/03/15 01:07 AM
3

To your title: no. Furthermore, can I expect a cat to become a tiger? No. But are you a fucking cat? Stop making excuses. Start practicing. See you in a year or so, Tiger.
/r/seduction03/03/15 09:30 AM
1

On the sidebar there is a section called, "Inner game." That is where you need to start. I think you could benefit from reading, "No More Mr. Nice Guy." Usually I don't recommend it, but for you case, it might help you get a better perspective on how to handle people who drag you down.
/r/seduction03/02/15 02:07 AM
1

You might want to take your time more. It is possible to eliminate hurt feelings almost altogether by communicating your casual intentions before you casually fuck her brains out. I have had experiences where I have been on the brink of having sex with a girl, realized that her expectations might not match mine, and stopped to tell her what I was thinking. Honestly, it killed the mood once, but the other times the girls pumped the breaks, thought about it, and decided that they wanted to fuck an…
/r/seduction30/01/15 02:19 AM
6

Everything preceding the fucking was seduction. She wouldn't want it despite her having a boyfriend if there was no seduction involved. The post is an observation of the aftermath of seduction.
/r/seduction30/01/15 02:13 AM
3

The right answer is everything you read here. If you just want a quick fix, say, 'haha, good one buddy! You really got me!' The aggressor will feel stupid, and you will have said nothing insulting to continue the conflict. This is a tried and true line, so you have no reason to fear acting the Guinea pig. What's more, it demonstrates your ability to rise above, as everyone else is saying you ought to.
/r/seduction26/12/14 06:15 PM
2

It's only an indicator of interest if they look away and then look back shortly after. The idea is that no one is going to give you a second glance if they are not interested in whether or not you are still looking. Some who are interested might not look back a second time, but few who look back a second time will not be interested.
/r/seduction20/11/14 05:30 AM
1

Don't brush it off when she gives you an opening like that. Why do you think she is telling you she has a high sex drive? For your health?! No. It's because she thinks that information is valuable to you. Revised conversation: "I have such a high sex drive!" "Cool. Get over here." fin.
/r/seduction12/11/14 11:03 PM
2

Well, if it is a second encounter, I like to go right in for a hug. If I'm feeling good I'll put on the 'Excited puppy dog,' greeting, pick her up and swing her around, and start the date off with a lot of energy. That way, she has to pick hers up to meet yours, and you don't have to worry about any lulls if you meet somewhere in the middle. A good place to start on a first encounter is thumb wrestling. Waiting in line for movie tickets? Thumb wrestle. Bonus points for playfulness over competiti…
/r/seduction12/11/14 10:59 PM
1

Preach.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:10 AM
4

Downvoted myself to indicate sarcasm.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:09 AM
4

Yell at her like an alpha gorilla. That will show her you are dominant.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:08 AM
2

Seconded. If you have time to think about her, you will think about her. An added benefit of making your life interesting is you end up having a lot of things to talk about. Another benefit of making your life interesting is, you don't really need anyone else. You're self sufficient. Women don't want to be needed, they want to be wanted. Moral of the story: start doing cool things that you like to do, and people will start to notice that you are a person who is worth knowing. Women included.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:07 AM
1

I didn't have a girlfriend until I was almost 19. All my friends up to that point were nerdy guys, and we hung out in my friend's basement every weekend. I'm doing quite well now.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:00 AM
3

Don't be an asshole, and don't give her a lecture... how hard is that?
/r/seduction11/11/14 06:58 AM
1

Yeah!
/r/seduction10/11/14 02:55 AM
0

Do you create Tinder Profiles of beautiful girls with your youtube video links in their description sections? Cause I'm pretty sure you do that... which is not an Honest Signal. Not an Honest Signal at all.
/r/seduction02/10/14 04:33 PM
1

Is she looking at you? She wants you. You will almost never catch a girl looking at you if she doesn't want you to. It's amazing.
/r/seduction02/10/14 03:14 AM
5

This reminds me of wedding crashers where Will Farrel decides at the end to start crashing funerals.
/r/seduction16/09/14 07:34 PM
2

You never have to be a douche. You always have to be confident. That includes body language cues which you are probably not putting out there because you are just starting and it doesn't always come naturally. Unless you are a natural... which you're not based on what you wrote here. That is based on kinesics, usually abbreviated to kino here, but I don't like the word kino because it has warped the concept of kinesics so that it only means touch. Really kinesics is every physical thing you do w…
/r/seduction14/09/14 09:48 PM
1

Oh yeah. Definitely deadlifts and rows.
/r/seduction09/09/14 09:31 AM
1

It's just not natural for you yet. The trick to not being uptight about it is not feeling like it makes you look uptight. If you have good posture and look nervous about it you look uptight. If you have good posture and look relaxed about it you look sexy.
/r/seduction09/09/14 09:30 AM
1

Yeah you can ignore it pretty easily. You could also go with owning it just the way you did your academic failure. Something that people really don't get is that being authentic and letting yourself be vulnerable are really attractive qualities. If you go over to them and also start shit talking the kid who screwed everything up during his presentation it shows that you do own your mistakes, that you are not some social outcast who is going to hear himself being talked about and not join in, and…
/r/seduction09/09/14 09:27 AM
1

I don't think it's something that you need to bring up. A girl who just wants to jump your bones will respect you less for it. A girl who you are dating will not believe that you are able to get another women without her. Not many benefits to it being divulged.
/r/seduction08/09/14 08:05 AM
1

That coach will take you into the field...
/r/seduction07/09/14 01:52 AM
2

Dude, I hear you. I have given up on fixing it and just embraced it. It comes with a lot of highs, and a lot of lows, but on the whole it just means that you will be in for a lot of intense experiences. Nothing more, and nothing less. Just make sure you don't give up on all other prospects while in lust. I've done that and regretted it when I got dumped haha.
/r/seduction25/08/14 06:24 PM
7

It's basically an invitation to flirt aggressively. Pickup wisdom would tell us to tease her about it, 'whoa hands off the goods.' 'This shit ain't free.' You could, if you are feeling bold, turn around and immediately invade her personal space (don't forget eye contact and seductive smile otherwise it will scare the shit out of her). If she didn't want that result she would not have slapped your ass. If she seems uncomfortable you can play it all off as a joke. Just have fun with that situation…
/r/seduction20/08/14 06:20 PM
4

He runs into fires as a profession. He might struggle with fractions, but at least he is good at splitting doors into them.
/r/seduction07/08/14 04:37 PM
1

I just want to make this clear... grocery stores are not magical. You have been informed.
/r/seduction07/08/14 04:33 PM
1

Sounds like a fulfilling life. Have fun.
/r/seduction07/08/14 07:09 AM
1

I do not object to tagging and bagging in the content of this subreddit despite my objections to it morally. I do object to the needless pigeonholing of seduction into that particular sect thereof. Learn to accept the interests of others as valid and worth your concern. It will make you a person worth knowing, and the tens do not go home with men who are not worth knowing.
/r/seduction06/08/14 09:26 PM
3

That's how I do brother.
/r/seduction05/08/14 12:04 AM
18

Ice skating, bowling, mini golf, rock climbing, hiking, bungie jumping, go karting, paintballing, amusement parks, day at the beach, teach her to do something you love and are good at, jazz bar, coffee shop, comedy club, etc... It depends on the kind of girl, but almost anything that is fun is a good date. Remember though... if you can't answer the question of what kind of date would win this girl over, then do not make her your girlfriend. You do not know her well enough.
/r/seduction04/08/14 03:00 PM
7

Actually, this is /r/seduction. In case you misunderstand what we encourage here... it is not exclusively the mindless pursuit of pussy, but the mindful pursuit of whatever sort of romantic interest a person might endeavor to pursue. In case you misunderstand what I am requesting here... it is absolutely for you to dislodge your head from your ass. Firmly placed though it may be.
/r/seduction04/08/14 02:56 PM
1

Good. Don't fuck her. Fuck her friends' friends.
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:39 PM
1

It really depends on the kind of girl you want to meet. You'll find one night stands in clubs. Brainy girls in book stores. Artsy girls in jazz bars and museums. Sporty girls in the gym. The question isn't where do you find girls. It's where do you find girls you can like, and the answer is... what do you like?
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:38 PM
1

I thought about it, and I don't think that is the way to do it. Not this time anyway. I have a girl on my hands who firmly believes that I will come back to her eventually even if she ignores me. Otherwise... she would not ignore me. If I prove her wrong then she will be intrigued by me because I am something that she did not believe I was. Someone who can resist her.
/r/seduction03/08/14 01:50 PM
1

I have plenty of options. I'm working on another girl right now, and have a fuck buddy on call pretty much 24/7 because she lives in my building. Good point though. I started putting more into the other girl in order to distract myself from this one, and haven't had so much trouble ignoring her until she messages me back now.
/r/seduction03/08/14 01:49 PM
1

Alright I like the reply. The point that I should have gotten the phone number is a good one. As for the emotional attachment... I don't really want to dial it back. I mean, it would absolutely make me better at seducing, but to me each seduction would be worth less if I wasn't emotionally invested in it. It makes me feel like a person instead of a seduction machine, and I like the ups and downs that come with it. I'll try to keep it in check though.
/r/seduction03/08/14 01:47 PM
1

Good idea with the group gathering. Way less pressure and lots of social proof.
/r/seduction31/07/14 10:32 AM
1

Oh, I'm actually really certain that she is legitimately busy. She works in a lab 9-9 a lot of days, and is going to Budapest this weekend. I guess I'm thinking is it better to freeze her out until she texts back? Is it better to message her after this weekend and do the scheduling dance again? Is it ok to message her and tell her to have fun in Budapest? Where is the line of over eagerness?
/r/seduction31/07/14 10:31 AM
1

Sometimes I enjoy a sandwich that I don't have to make. It doesn't matter who the person is making the sandwich. I just appreciate that talent in a person.
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:24 AM
5

It means she was thinking about you. In what capacity... you do not know, but if your goal is attracting her you should assume she was thinking about you in that capacity and proceed with that in mind.
/r/seduction24/07/14 03:26 PM
3

Just about any non-physical characteristic you would assign to a man + the knowledge that sometimes I just want to feel manly and take the lead/not ask for directions/ fix something incorrectly and indulging me in that. Also... sandwich making prowess.
/r/seduction17/07/14 05:51 PM
1

I'm guessing you want a smooth way to bow out. I usually go with, 'Of course you do. All the good ones do.' It's a bit complimentary, but that doesn't really matter because you are already done with the gaming. edit: Before I say that I always ask her the same three questions. What is his name? how tall is he? what color are his eyes? If she answers those questions without too much hesitation then she is telling the truth, and you can use the line. Otherwise you give her shit for lying to you.
/r/seduction12/07/14 11:19 PM
2

'You're not wrong. You're just an asshole.' -The Dude
/r/seduction12/07/14 10:46 PM
1

Good responses. I agree with these assessments of what it means to not give a fuck, and believe I said as much in my post. My main concern is that people who are new to this might come here and not understand the concept.
/r/seduction06/07/14 11:25 AM
1

The accent is subjective. It will put you in a minority which puts you in demand for those interested in said minority. The culture is not subjective. As an American, you are likely more open than what they are used to and any connecting you do will likely feel more natural than said norm. That is your silver bullet.
/r/seduction14/06/14 01:04 AM
3

The passing eye contact has become a pretty nice tool in my utility belt. As you approach her you look at her face. Nothing else. You should already know if her body is good enough for you before you get to the point that she can really tell you are checking her out. Then as you walk by her you just keep looking while smiling (not a huge politician grin. just enough.), and if she has the lady balls to hold that eye contact you know even more about her (that she has some fire in her belly). That …
/r/seduction02/06/14 11:06 PM
1

An extrovert would probably be more practiced in meeting people, but they both probably have similar ceilings if not starting points.
/r/seduction25/05/14 10:47 AM
1

Game embodies all aspects of attraction. To bag a ten you have to be an 8 with really fucking good game.
/r/seduction24/05/14 08:27 PM
1

It's also nice because then I get to tease about being a 'strong independent woman.' I want one of those, but not so much that she can't chuckle at the idea of it.
/r/seduction24/05/14 09:43 AM
3

My go to is buy her the freaking coffee and tell her she will get the next one. You simplify the order and imply the 'date' while still making it an equal exchange and not a panty bargain. Then, on the next coffee date, you make her cough up. If she doesn't then she is using you anyway, and you head for the hills.
/r/seduction23/05/14 02:52 PM
1

No one expects the (Spanish Inquisition) CUBE!!!
/r/seduction23/05/14 02:48 PM
10

'cock carousel' Go fuck yourself, you child. No man who just lost his woman wants to hear this.
/r/seduction15/04/14 01:33 AM
2

Way to play with her mortality. Never thought of that before.
/r/seduction11/04/14 12:17 PM
1

Really, the only thing you have standing in your way is the economy of sex and subsequent discouragement from men and women alike as a result of your refusal to follow the rules of the market. The worst that will happen is they will call you a slut behind your back. The best that will happen is they will call you a slut to your face and you will come back with, "I prefer the term 'sexually liberated,'" and then every guy you know will want to know exactly what you mean when you say that. As such…
/r/seduction31/03/14 02:59 PM
5

If it's tasty I'll eat it. I imagine the fish would be insulted if I spit it out though...
/r/seduction31/03/14 02:52 PM
2

Talk to a psychiatrist. No one here can help you with serious emotional instability. I'm not fucking with you. Do it.
/r/seduction30/03/14 11:49 AM
3

Don't worry guys, red pill is here to brighten the mood!
/r/seduction29/03/14 11:53 AM
2

"She straight up texted me that she has a crush on me." You literally have no work to do. You cannot screw this up unless you literally vomit all over her from nervousness or something like that. Get out of your head and thank Eros for blessing you with this fine wench.
/r/seduction29/03/14 11:52 AM
10

This guy picked the perfect quote for the situation. Seriously man, seduction is hard. You have to be attractive (if not physically attractive then in every other way, and even if you are physically attractive you still need to work on yourself a lot), happy all the time (literally impossible), entertaining (but not a dancing monkey), and a god damned sociopath if you are going via the mystery method sort of thing where you manipulate them into feeling that they are less valuable than they thoug…
/r/seduction29/03/14 10:21 AM
1

You are doing this the right way. You are learning the value of romance in making yourself and other people happy and you are learning how to use it without abusing it. Well done sir.
/r/seduction27/03/14 10:44 AM
1

Get on that pirate peacock steez.
/r/seduction27/03/14 12:58 AM
1

This is pretty much the only situation that I believe its appropriate to neg the girl. And by neg, I pretty much mean an insult that you can get away with. Not the original observation of disorderly appearance. Patronizing her would also work, "Oh you are so super duper special and we should all know it!" If she tries to come back with something remove your attention from her and do your best to bring the attention of others with you.
/r/seduction26/03/14 06:41 PM
10

Don't worry guys, I got this. Me: What are you writing about? Her: It's a guidance in English. I'm working as a city guide. I'm German actually. Are you German? Me: No. Guess again. Her: Spanish Me: No. Last try. Then I give up on you :P Her: English Me: Close enough. American. Why are you writing it all out? Her: Because I feel more confident if I write it before holding the guidance. Where are you from? Which part of America? Me: New Jersey. What is your name? Her: name (she asks mine) Me: slo…
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:59 PM
2

*today ftfy
/r/seduction25/03/14 06:03 PM
2

Hey! Hey Dave! Dave Dylan! It's me! All of everyone's hopes and dreams and aspirations! Remember me?! Yeah? You do? Good. Go fuck yourself.
/r/seduction06/03/14 11:18 AM
1

I'm saying that if you get lost in details like that at this stage in the game you are not going to make as much progress as you want to. Put down the broad strokes before worrying about the pixels.
/r/seduction23/02/14 02:31 PM
2

I'm not going to argue with you about whether I'm right about this. I mean... you have literally field tested it and found my assertion to be correct. Just go forth and prosper with the power of simplicity.
/r/seduction23/02/14 12:35 PM
2

Along the lines of this you could try a little exercise just once. Go out on night with the intent of blowing an open set by advancing too quickly sexually. Obviously that wouldn't be the goal every time. It's just a way to teach yourself just how far you can go sexually in a given situation without any actually bad results coming from it.
/r/seduction23/02/14 12:33 PM
2

Hm. The answer to your question is a normative one, but it can be applied to two separate sets of norms. In the pickup community we usually assume that everything we do should be for the sake of abundance. That is to say that our relationships are meant to make us more relationships like a big old love fractal. To that effect, yes the man should be one step behind the woman in who loves most, because loving the woman more than she loves you exposes you to getting hurt and taking you out of the g…
/r/seduction23/02/14 12:29 PM
5

Because those lines are seen as a crutch. You have all the time in the world to make them or memorize them, and your delivery can be perfect, but the fact that you used one only proves that you are trying too hard. It's like saying, "Hi, you are worth more than me as you can plainly see by how hard I am trying to impress you with my supreme wit. Please like me despite the fact that you are worth more than me. Thank!" Let the wit come out during conversation. Start with a simple "what's up," or "…
/r/seduction23/02/14 12:21 PM
1

You just do. For example: hey where are you from?... Oh how was it growing up there... wow that must have made you feel...
/r/seduction21/02/14 01:33 PM
35

http://imgur.com/gallery/40Idny0
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:31 AM
6

Alright man listen, I'm not going to pump you up. You don't need it. This isn't a 400lb deadlift. This is talking to a person. A person who will like you if you give her the chance. Instead, ask yourself why you should not talk to her. The answer is that you are afraid, but what of? No girl will ever rip your heart out and stomp on it if you give it to her in good faith on an initial interaction. (later on... well you can find out for yourself). Right now, you are not dating that girl you want t…
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:53 PM
2

Thanks for the pep talk man! I might have done better if my friends had been in the pickup spirit with me, but they just wanted to drink beer and goof off. Still, externalizing failure is not a means of self improvement. Next time I will do it right.
/r/seduction17/02/14 10:58 AM
2

Disinterested is not the most important aspect of this post. It's advice on breaking through the feeling that this person might not like you talking to them.
/r/seduction15/02/14 03:50 PM
2

Sounds like fun! For mine, I bought 36 roses, summoned some reinforcements, and marched on our city as the champions of love. We got rid of all of them pretty quickly and proceeded to head over to a friend's place for drinks after. Provided some pretty memorable moments, but I flopped on my second (hottest of the night) approach and didn't even attempt to engage in conversation. Felt pretty lame afterward, but it was a good lesson to take away. There's more to seduction than just approach.
/r/seduction15/02/14 03:40 PM
1

Are you familiar with the idea that if you put infinite monkeys at infinite typewriters it is impossible for one of them to write, "The Sound and the Fury"? My point is... he produces a lot of videos.
/r/seduction14/02/14 06:17 PM
0

It's ok happyjerk, you had the thunder god working against you. Maybe next time.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:29 PM
1

If she's looking for more than a glance... it's the look. Proceed as befits that situation.
/r/seduction09/02/14 10:57 PM
1

Oh yeah?! Well I have a very sharp tongue and am very far away from you. Remember that part about how the internet goes not transmit grappling? Come at me bro! All day baby! All day!
/r/seduction08/02/14 10:55 PM
1

amog practice? Of course we do! Don't be silly Why? You got a problem with that?
/r/seduction08/02/14 10:46 PM
6

Good amog practice fellas! Everyone take five and come back with something you learned.
/r/seduction08/02/14 09:37 PM
3

I like how you kept it as 5 things in the title instead of just calling it 4, even though the 5th point is literally the absence of a point. Inspiring strength of frame right there.
/r/seduction08/02/14 05:55 PM
1

You wouldn't be asking unless you already had.
/r/seduction02/02/14 02:21 PM
1

It works... as all these fans have pointed out. But it isn't seduction.
/r/seduction30/01/14 09:47 PM
2

Shit test her right back man. Just stop calling it a shit test, cause it's not. She tested your shit. Your shit was good. You got lazy though, and now she is wondering where your shit went. Give her that shit. No reason to give up on life just because you won the game.
/r/seduction29/01/14 05:59 PM
2

No worries man. Breakups are shit as is. Good that you are over it now. Just keep your cool. I know it's an archetype that a lot of pua's use, but think of the silverback gorilla. Sometimes it will yell and shout at the beta males, but it only ever beats wholesale ass if the beta male directly challenges it. Don't ever stand around waiting for a conversation to finish. Least of all if it is about you. Either engage if you can interject easily, or leave. Best solutions.
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:55 PM
4

Woohoo! Sounds like a fuckin party man! For the record, the reason you felt angry about that was a lack of abundance... which makes sense based on the two year dry spell. Next time, try letting her go. You will have not wasted the night, she will respect that you aren't too desperate to sleep with her, and you will still have that rapport to build on in the future. Shit happens when you party naked. It's no big deal.
/r/seduction26/01/14 01:10 AM
1

Almost perfect. The only thing you got wrong is that you are too pessimistic. There will be another opportunity. Don't let it go next time. Better to try and fail than to give up too early and regret it. You'll have more respect for yourself in the former situation.
/r/seduction26/01/14 01:04 AM
1

What did you learn from that?
/r/seduction25/01/14 06:35 PM
4

That's actually sort of innovative. Thanks!
/r/seduction24/01/14 01:11 AM
7

Dude, I just got out of a 14 month long relationship. I did the breaking up, and I don't know if you have been on that side of things, but it's honestly not as different from the being broken up with side as I was expecting. I moved in with her in her home country of Germany at the ripe old age of 21 years old. You want to talk about tearing yourself down and rebuilding? I'm your man. Let me give you the break down my trodden brother in attraction. Don't look back. Seriously. She might give you …
/r/seduction22/01/14 12:44 PM
1

Well ya see, this is why it's called a blowout. You pretty much have to push the boundaries with your target if you expect to have the seduction go anywhere, so if at any point you sort of fuck it up, the set is pretty much shot. Any other girl in that set will probably not want to be the "runner up." So you need to find a new set and start again.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:16 PM
8

I was about to rage pretty hard about how disappointed I am that a subreddit specifically devoted to creating attraction spouts off the same, "be attractive," Bullshit as everywhere the fuck else on reddit does, but instead I have a more wholesome and helpful message which will also respond to your question. Attraction is something that you can control. Physical attractiveness is not the only variety thereof. Being intellectual, being funny, being interesting, being the dangling string. Those ar…
/r/seduction16/01/14 09:32 PM
1

Ich auch.
/r/seduction15/01/14 10:10 PM
1

Hahaha, yeah man! They just happen to have no stars upon thars.
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:26 PM
1

You may be taking the whole, "don't ask a fish how to catch fish," thing to seriously. Women are people, and seduction is about getting people (men and women) to like you. Try listening to everyone and you will soon find that everyone will want to talk to you.
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:46 PM
1

No, just a simple one size fits all sort of thing. I could of course come up with something like, "Hallo, sprichst du englisch?" Myself. It's more something that conveys that I want to talk to her, but can't possibly continue in english, but does not disqualify my intent to attempt German communication. You know what? As I write this I realize that, "Hallo, sprichst du Englisch?" is pretty much exactly what I need to say and I'm overthinking this by a long shot. Thanks for the help. Sorry for th…
/r/seduction14/01/14 01:53 PM
1

I imagine I do have a US accent. My point is that I don't speak enough German to really flirt in that language. I would prefer to open any targets in german in order to increase their comfort with the interaction and then bring in the foreign charm in english. So if you were opening a girl in german, what would you say?
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:51 PM
1

First reddit post I have ever saved.
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:15 AM
4

Just make sure you're not just saying "Hi." and that you are not trying to impress them right off the bat. Remember, you are screening them. Not the other way around. You are exactly what they want and need. Whether they are that for you remains to be seen.
/r/seduction28/12/13 07:23 PM
4

It's more of a should than a can. Of course you can. It's just stupid to do so.
/r/seduction25/12/13 04:35 AM
1

I can see where one might struggle to see the logic in this "admission," but I firmly believe that one of the best things I ever did for my game was to not struggle against shit tests. It's almost like kung fu, where you turn the weight and force of your opponent against them. Instead of their shit test phasing you, you turn it into a joke. You may also be objecting because it is too forward and "full of yourself", and that is a much more legitimate concern. The context I assumed was a close con…
/r/seduction23/12/13 11:28 PM
1

It's a shit test. The good news is there's an easy turn around. Something to the effect of, "I'll show you how gay I am later. I promise!" That in mind, you might want to try speaking from your chest/diaphragm instead of from your throat and mouth in order to get masculine power in your speech.
/r/seduction22/12/13 10:04 PM
1

Wie sagt man, "This is how it's done." auf Deutsch? Because this is how it's fuckin done.
/r/seduction20/12/13 07:38 PM
3

Well since you get to tell me what I am doing wrong I'll tell you what you are. You wrote this as a page long metaphor instead of the paragraph it could have been. Still pretty interesting, and insightful in terms of transitioning to a more advanced stage of seduction, but super annoying to read. 6/10 would take too long to learn this lesson again.
/r/seduction18/12/13 07:33 PM
4

Thank you so much for posting this. Granted I have my fair share of kisses, but I just had my first date after coming out of an LTR two weeks ago. At the end of it we kissed and she opened her mouth SO wide. I was worried that I had become too tame in my relationship and that this was the standard and she would be weirded out that I didn't do the same immediately. Now I kinda know that it was her mistake. Still accommodated her preference, but I feel much better about mine now.
/r/seduction18/12/13 07:21 PM
9

Make sure the bite is light. I personally love this move, but if you do it wrong just one time kissing with that person will always be much less intense because they will pull back every time you go for that little nibble. source: been there done that.
/r/seduction18/12/13 07:18 PM
1

This is a good opener in some situations. That is all.* FTFY
/r/seduction14/12/13 06:02 PM
3

Well it happened two days ago... so no. I'm not. Thanks for your support though.
/r/seduction02/05/13 02:12 PM
2

I think abundance will be useful, but I cut my group of female friends down significantly. I completely took myself out of the game out of respect for the fact that this girl and I fit together perfectly. The only reason I had to end it was that she is a native German, and I was about to head over there for over a year. The commitment scared me, so I need to get back to how I got her in the first place... game.
/r/seduction02/05/13 04:37 AM
1

That's a pretty good start, man! Thanks a lot!
/r/seduction02/05/13 02:49 AM
-5

I'm sorry man, but this is just not a meaningful contribution to this subreddit. In the first place, it is too obvious. Of course you can tell a girl she is pretty and she will be happy. You also discount the effect this has on your relationship with her. Off the bat you are giving her value. Now, if you have a wing man negging the crap out of her, and you come to her defense, that is a different story. That is the sort of thing that increases your value in her eyes, while only salvaging, not in…
/r/seduction20/02/13 06:24 PM
1

So help me God... if one more person uses "but yet," I'm going postal. One or the other dude. This is actually related to your question. Don't over do things. If you put too much into your pickup she will be repulsed by your eagerness. I can tell by the fact that you used both of those words that you wanted to sound a certain way in this post. You can't WANT to come off a certain way. You have to come off exactly the way you come off, and if that ruffles feathers then FUCK those feathers. You di…
/r/seduction17/10/12 03:07 PM
66

That "envious" look was people being ticked at you for taking up the whole sidewalk.
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:28 PM
9

If you are smart... you will be able to tell if she is smart.
/r/seduction21/09/12 05:04 PM
1

The fact is, seddit has a specific audience. That audience is the average redditor... or if we are lucky... the slightly above average redditor. I for one am bent on helping those who need it in this field, and those gentlemen do not need the specifics. They need to feel like they can do what they are trying to do. Honestly, for a lot of guys that's all that is needed. I would love to see a good subreddit on the specifics of the game just as much as the next PUA here, but if we keep things in on…
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:08 PM
1

As far as dancing goes... If you are good at actual dancing, then dance, but please don't grind on people. I used to do it, but if you consider how weird it is to rub pelvises with a stranger you will realize how limiting it is to your continued interactions with them. Instead, I recommend taking dancing lessons, and becoming the exception to the rule of grinding, rather than being society's bitch. That's just me though.
/r/seduction17/09/12 01:10 AM
-7

Don't offer help. Make fun of how terrible they are at moving boxes. They will say something along the lines of, "oh, and I bet you're a pro?" You reply in the affirmative and help them whether they like it or not. Alternatively, when they ask if you are a pro, say yes, but that you are busy right that minute. Ask for their number to meet up later.
/r/seduction09/09/12 09:30 PM
8

Maybe that works for you. That's great! Unfortunately, for many of the people here "being alpha," has to be a choice before it can be their natural personality. I would say that I have made the transition to being alpha from being much less than alpha, and it didn't happen just because some guy on the internet said it should be my personality. I had to make a lot of life choices to get to this place, and it's those life choices that you are attempting to tell people are not necessary. tl;dr: I'm…
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:22 PM
1

Yeah, it's always good to reinforce the basics. I really fell short on analyzing the situation I think.
/r/seduction02/09/12 04:21 PM
1

I would say that the compliment should be used in a way that frames the relationship you want with the girl. If you say, "hey, that's a nice hanbag you have there," it'll get her attention, and you will talk, but it's not the same as saying to her, "Hey, I walked past you just now, and thought to myself 'self' you will kick yourself if you don't go back and talk to that beautiful girl." That's what I would do, but I have a practiced way with words. If you want, just memorize that second example.…
/r/seduction02/09/12 05:45 AM
3

Mystery is not a natural pickup artist. He is good at it, but there are ways to do this without being Mystery.
/r/seduction02/09/12 05:42 AM
10

"Hi, my name is smellythesmacker, blah blah blah"
/r/seduction02/09/12 05:38 AM
1

You're on that tape worm shit, brah!
/r/seduction30/08/12 04:21 PM
1

I would like to think that it was the smile and eye contact. That can go a long way when a girl is used to intimidating guys. I've actually been having trouble number closing. I've done this a few times and not gotten the number. I just forget that the goal is not just to start a conversation, but to create a situation that allows for one in the future. I will admit that I did a little research into these fitness classes she takes because for one I would probably see her again, and two I legit a…
/r/seduction18/08/12 09:27 PM
1

That's the kind of effort we like to see man! If she made any kind of response at all there is definitely something you can say though, so I would do some research on conversation threading.
/r/seduction09/08/12 02:18 AM
3

I have wondered about using this for a while, but i feel like it's better for night game than for day game. A kiss anywhere is a bit much for someone who you just met a few seconds ago unless you come in with a very forward frame like, "I saw you from over there and thought that if I let you leave I would be the most foolish person i know." That's just an idea.
/r/seduction08/08/12 02:42 AM
1

Dude, not being in school is the anti-excuse for having bad grammar, and believe it or not your intelligence is a pretty big deal when a woman is considering whether you are worth her time. Your grammar, as it is, conveys that you are incapable of intelligible thought, let alone interesting thought. This is a case that requires some inner game/self-improvement.
/r/seduction06/08/12 02:26 AM
1

I will ask you to please not write the FR unless it is a miserable failure. She is seduced. This is seduction. We don't need to hear every detail of the conquest, only the long and bloody march to the battle.
/r/seduction25/07/12 02:00 AM
2

Literally asked a girl if I could kiss her just tonight. It worked, and I think it was mostly a positive thing, but I did feel silly for asking. It was along the lines of "I've wanted to kiss you for a while." Good point you made though. Even if it did work this time, it would probably feel better if I just sacked up and went for it. Good points there.
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:40 AM
0

...I understood. Maybe you are just a little slow. You'll get it next time tiger :D
/r/seduction22/06/12 01:57 AM
8

No. Not this. It increases her value in comparison to your own, making her doubt that you are the catch she wants. "I aim to please," Is a good one with plenty of insinuation behind it.
/r/seduction26/05/12 08:41 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter