Back in the Game

Gettinganoilchange · 2013-05-02T04:11:11+00:00

I've been talking to girls since my breakup, but actually recently (last Sunday) I made my Ex cheat on her current boyfriend with me. I'm the only one who can bring excitement to her life, but it's her loss, she's doing drugs and overall sucking at life now. I'm such a great guy! My very blunt advice to you: Get the FUCK over it and slowly talk to girls again, dont stop working out either. My relationship was 17 months. We broke up about 2 months ago. I got over it in about a week. You can too, just take on an abundance mind set. Cheers man.

OutlawPUA · 2013-05-02T04:59:48+00:00

I've been out of the game for several weeks for work, and to be honest, I am a little anxious about what it's gonna be like next week when I'm hitting the town.

My normal go-to vibe move is to open nine sets in ten minutes. By about the fourth or fifth set, I'm indestructibly in state.

recyclablebantha · 2013-05-02T12:28:20+00:00

Has anyone experienced this sort of thing before?

Yes. After every break-up.

How did you get back into it? Should I take some time, or just start warming up, or throw myself out into the pond with the big fish?

Part of it has to do with letting go of any idea that the one you just broke up with was the be-all end-all. Otherwise it can deter you from making approaches or discourage you during any part of the process, if the girls aren't enough like the one you just lost. So be sure to acknowledge any such feelings you may or may not have. Bottom line: process the loss.

As for the rest.... Getting back on the horse is good, just make sure you brush up on technique. Or at least, whatever techniques you favored (if you are happy with where you were before you got a GF). Whatever mantras you had running in your head to feed your abundance mentality, outcome independence, etc..... do your best to remember them or make new ones.

(There was a good one floating around in one of TofuTofu's latest guides, "I wonder what she's like....." Used to emphasize outcome independence, because after all, you have no idea what any of these women you're going to be approaching, are actually like.)

meat_delivery · 2013-05-02T02:05:05+00:00

Tyler has a video on breakups, maybe you wanna watch that.

Title	Back in the Game
Author	sloshslapper
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	May 2, 2013 12:28 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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