After watching RSD i have noticed that I am not entering "state". I still hesitate to talk to girls and am inside my head, all I care about is talking to girls and picking them up although I know that is not what you should care about.

My night wasn't bad showed up with some friends and chatted up these girls at the beginning but you could tell it was awkward at some points. I introduced by saying I had a bet with my friend about who is cuter. We chat them up a bit and later the girl goes to the bathroom and I take her seat. She comes back and I suggest she sits on my lap and at first she says okay but later hesitates and says she is heavy. I am not sure whether or not this is a shit test or she just doesnt want to sit down. We left and Either way we shortly stopped talking the girls. I had plenty of friends yet I felt like I was being held back. I later see this cute blonde and stand near her for what seems like 15 min before I go talk to her. It was awkward and I was struggling just to hold conversation. I didn't know what to talk about and man it sucked, then they would whisper things or talk to each other and I didn't really know what to do. They left after a little while. I later met the girl and asked her for her number just for the hell of it and she gives me some excuse about bad experiences with giving numbers but what really bothered me was this friend of hers cheering her cup as she rejected me. Naturally I was polite but down. Even when I talked with her the second time she didn't seem happy to see me. Although the conversation sucked I wouldn't be happy to see me either. I know this field report sucks but hey people have bad days. You guys have any tips for me? Also, how do you open up two girls talking?