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[–]_newyorkgiants_ 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you guys talked and you had a good convo it wouldn't be weird
[–]quinntuplets 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She set you up for success man. You could definitely friend her, I dont think it would be weird but its not proactive. Youre goal at this point should be two-fold. First you should keep doing what youre doing with her. Conversation, eye contact, and kino. This is all good. Second when you feel the conmection is strong, make plans to hang out outside of class. That could mean going to a party with a group of friends or, best case scenario, watching netflix with her alone! Dont be too forward when you propose hanging out. Bait her like she baited you when she said she gets bored and has nothing to watch. I wouldve said something like "I always watch (tv show) with my friends on (day of the week)." If she seems interested, invite her and then the day of say something like my friends bailed but we can still watch (tv show). That is sneaky as hell. Its not creepy at all and comes off very natural. Hope that helps.
[–]IWLoseIt 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha that's brilliant, the problem is I live at home so I can't invite her here :/ I'm gonna try and wait until Friday and just talk to her if the moment arises. I feel like adding her now would be kinda.. weird? I just get that feeling. Though, I'd love to talk to her, I love chatting with people on fb. Ahh, fk me.
[–]quinntuplets 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't overdo the chatting via text/fb. You want face to face interaction.
[–]Murfdigidy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Escalate, I see sure signs of kino here. Def give kino back in obviously a discreet way. Girls are hyper sensitive to touch so she'll like it (thanks to this sub now I am super sensitive to it, I wasn't before). Find an excuse to study together or meet for coffee. Or an excuse to maybe do homework together. Anything that gets you in a social setting, alone is best, but any social gathering with friends is fine too (sometimes being with friends takes the pressure off and allows you to charm her as you have fun with friends) . Idk just throwing it out there, anyway don't wait, don't look for more signs, women are flighty, meaning unlike guys their emotions constantly fluctuate, 1 minute they're hot the other they're cold. So don't wait too long to escalate, the pot is stirred, keep it going!
And yes 100% this, don't text too much, face to face is key
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