I went on a date with this woman, and it escalated to making out in my car. I went on a second date and it escalated much further in my car (2nd base). She was hot for me, but logistics fucked me over. I thought I'd F-close on the 3rd date because logistics were set and she was really into me. I got hit upside the head because the date ended early and she told me she was going to "make a gentleman out of me". I was not mad, but disappointed. I went to a bar, hooked up with a drunk chick and made out in my car. Felt kinda guilty about it.

Anyway, a few days later, she calls me. Apparently she has morals and can't be with me sexually because I'm separated and not divorced yet from my wife. She wants to work on us as "friends" until I am divorced, which could take several months. Funny. It didn't seem to bother her while I was sucking on her tits in my car, but now it does? I'm really not sure how to react. I really care for her and she said she is falling for me. I've been friend zoned before, but not like this. I need help on what to do here (or not do here). Thanks, guys.

Oh and I have a date lined up tonight with someone else. I'm not putting all eggs in one basket.

tl;dr Got the "friends" talk after 2 hot dates. What to do?