Hey there everyone.

So here I am writting what I think would be an FR.

Background: I used to be the introverted fat kid, now I'm the slim sporty 22 yo outgoing computer developer.

Social skills: I talk to everyone I meet mostly and spark convos with strangers on the London tube, at work and in gym. Barely arrived in London last month but everyone talks to me at work/gym and met a few people outside of those contexts.

Sticking points: I don't really go out (as in clubs /bars) that often so I try to do daygame. The main sticker is that usually I talk to someone for fun and then the attraction kicks in and I fail to show enough intent. Gone through some RSD stuff on youtube(mostly tyler and max) and got my first 8 kisses last year. Still a virgin though.

The subject: a danish girl I met at the gym and ended up initiating her in weight training and she showed me how to stretch better.

So, we've been working out for a week now and each time I get a bit more physical, trying light kino: touching her shoulders, teasing her barely existent belly, touching the muscles she's working out and so on. My main fear is she only takes this in the context of the workout so I suppose now that I need to apply it out of the gym.

Discussion wise I get her laughing and hitting high emotional spikes but my teasing only seems to make her chuckle so I'm not sure how to hit her lower spikes and make it more interesting. Suggestions?

I think i'm getting IOI's but not sure. She squeezes my hand back when we stretch each other. I was talking about a specific type of tea, she was like "yeah I totally love that one" and I propose we can get some at my place later this week (error? Should have asked for directly post workout?) . Also on the second day she put her phone in my phone (because she forgot hers and wanted to take a couple of instagram gym pics) . You guys think those are IOI's or am I thinking too much? Any suggestions except asking her to go for a drink?(my flat is like next door from a pub)

Thanks for all the help seddit, been lurking for the past 8 months and started approaching 4 months ago.

PS:I still do daygame approaches(tube and on the street) but only got very few numbers and most of them flaked or I forgot my phone that day

PS2: love you guys