I have met this girl at friend's birtday party, we flirted a lot and ended the night making out. I said her "text me", she replied "how can I find you" and I said "you will figure it out".

She is from another country, 5hours drive away and went home next day. She texted me a lot when she came home, responding every second, every day, begging me to come over, flirted a lot, began sexualizing conversation, but I was unable to visit her. She said she is going abroad for the next semester and that I could visit her. She pursued and pursued and I gave in to compensate a "phone date" to give her at least some attention.

We had this phone date, had a lot of conversation, she laughed, we joked, flirted and the whole thing lasted 3 hours. I was the one who finished the call. During the call she mentioned she just broke up with her ex like 2 weeks ago.

I havent heard from her for 4 days and I reached out. We chatted, but she never mentioned me visiting her again. She said I could call her and we talked again for some 40mins. We flirted, had fun, she was talking about her fears, her embarrasing moments, everything that sounds like high attraction levels. Then I said I have to go, in order to not to give her too much attention. She sent me a photo and few messages but I had a feeling of her becoming cold.

Suddenly she went totally silent not texting me for a week, i didnt text either, I felt she needs space. She went for holidays and shared a picture saying "she is willing to fight for it (probably her relationship with her ex). She reached out but the messages were much more bland this time around. It was visible her enthusiasm dying around.

I dont plan to text her again at all, even though I reached out only once, since feeling the loss of interest. I wonder if this phone date was unnecassary and shouldnt have done it? It was the only way to connect with her. She might have got the vibes I am more into her than I actually am. She got my attention due to her personality over the phone, since the call was fun engaging.

Are phone dates/facetimes in this scenario unnecessary and destroying attraction? Any other suggestion you might have over the information I have provided? Maybe she wanted attention over broken relationship? Was I too easy to win over?