Technically should be posted to uni-seddit but one FR here doesn't involve college girls. Most do. I've been reading a ton of theory on seddit. Mostly lurked here for a while, but been slightly active from time to time. I did do the 100sets challenge, which I recommend. Get you inner game in order first before you try meeting people. And it's true you can tell when someone has no inner game. So do those 100sets to beat your AA. Just say 'hi' to everyone you meet. It will build up your confidence FAST.

[FR 1] The first girl (HB6) was on the bus with me, her in the front and me in the middle. In the front of many buses there are designated seating, where you give up your seat to a person with disability, elderly or pregnant women. Ironically a pregnant woman gets onboard and HB6 politely gives up her seat. Which I notice and think "Well that's attractive". A few stops later, I ring the bell. Regretting that I didn't thank her or somehow show my 'appreciation' for the kind gesture she did. So I exit from the rear of the bus. As I turn around, I see her exiting the front of the bus. So I slow my pace and let her catch up. I open by saying "Hey, that was very nice of you, giving up your seat like that?". She replies "yeah". "Not many people do that these days". "Yeah, it's kinda rude of them not too, I mean I can stand, I'm a healthy young person"... blah blah blah back and forth. Eventually after 2-3 minutes we part ways at the train station. I sort of ejected as I couldn't escalate it further.

Lessons: Escalate! Always, I cannot stress this enough. I fucked up here because I couldn't. But given that I'm still learning this, I can forgive myself. And this girl was the first person I talked to that day. I had no frame and it was early morning. I suspect I need to read up on escalation and qualifying.

--Next day--

[FR2] Same train station. Get on the train and wait, the box fills up with two girls. HB7 and HB5. HB5 was in her own world and I could care less. HB7 though had an interesting t-shirt. It was math related and I got the joke. So I laughed! And teased her by opening "So you're a math nerd huh, taking any math courses at uni?". She replies "Yeah three". "Ah cool, I took a bunch... well I have to, I'm kinda trying to be a rocket scientist". Bam instant attention grab. She straightens up and points her body at me. "So... what are you taking?". "Chemistry". "Oh cool, I sorta hate chem, but like it. Organic chem pisses me off" (In retrospect, I should've challenged her by saying "Chem is lame, why do you think it's good, convince me otherwise. Go!" or something to that effect). The convo devolved into very intellectual one.

Lessons: Should sexualize it. Chemistry is rife with innuendos and terms. There is a way to make everything sexy. The entire convo lasted 2-5 minutes.

[FR3] This girl HB6 I've seen before, but never talked to. She's in my engineering classes and was there for the last 4 years without me ever saying 'hi'. Not this time though. Anyways, she was in a common gathering place for aerospace and mechanical engineering students. So I walked into a room and greeted everybody with a "Hi guys". I proceeded to talk with everyone else but her. I asked everyone about their summers and made sure I told mine last. After this, I isolate her and proceed to make small talk. I think everyone subconsciously understood my body language when I turned to her, so everyone just didn't talk at that point. I got a full 5-15 mins of convo with her. And again did not escalate.

Lessons: Escalation seems to be my weak point. But given that I recently conquered my AA, this is to be expected I guess. But you practice and eventually you'll get it right. So I'll keep at it.

[FR4] A girl who is currently dating someone and have spoken to before HB7. I was very AFC around this girl and was interested in her, but alas some guy beat me to the punch and got her. I guess that also threw me more into AFC mode and derailed me from being awesome by a year. So I opened with a "Hey haven't seen you for a year. What's up?" And the conversation begins. Same deal as before, a long convo with no escalation. But there was innuendos, but alas nothing sexual in nature. Perhaps it's me thinking that she was 'taken'

Lessons: When will I learn to escalate and kino?

--Next day--

[FR5] Same common meeting area. A girl I haven't seen or met before, HB6. And in this FR I escalate. Topic was very sexual. Alas no kino yet. I still need to get to that. Same deal as before, start convo keep convo going. But this time I bridge people in. The discussion changes to weather and I remark "I hate the winter, the only people who like it are whites people" (basically everyone in the room).At which point she says "Well we get sunburnt in the summer". That is what I was waiting for because now I sexualize her FAST. "Well, maybe you should get some melanin in you, or maybe you should have a dark skinned parent" (It will be obvious where I'm going with this in a second). She replies "Well I can't choose my parents now can I?". "Hmmm that's true, but you can make sure your kid doesn't get fucked up like that, you know what I mean" smirk "So I should marry a brown guy" (Yes, I'm brown haha, see where I was going with this?) "No, I didn't say marry..." smirk "Ah true, so reproduce with a dark skinned person". At which point I say, "Well everyone here is white... so... maybe me?" (was that ever direct! AFC me would never have done this). Now HB6 suddenly points her body at me and basically starts giving me IOIs. And for some fucked up reason, I get involved in another convo happening in the room. Basically, I totally ignored her after I said that... After a while she excuses herself and goes to class. I think her panties may have been soaked

Lessons: What the fuck is wrong with me? I should have moved closer and began kino! Instead, I created a spark. I should've fanned the flames. So now a spark is there but no flame... Yes, I finally escalated, but I should've isolated and applied kino. Live and learn. I suspect I may see her in the future, so not a total loss.

--Next day--

[FR6] Same train station, but this time a couple, a guy and a girl HB8. We were packed in tight, morning seemed to be busy. They were talking about some courses I had taken before. When the opportunity arose, I interjected and said something. Not sure what it was, because their convo just stopped and I felt weird. In a nutshell I think it was them and not me. It's true that engineers have no social skills. Avoid this group at all costs. There are some people who can talk (me) so we aren't a total loss. And ladies... I'm gonna be a rocket scientist!

Lessons: Some people are socially awkward, it's not you it's them. So don't sweat it.

--Next day--

[FR7] (not college related, the only one) At my first bus stop this morning, I saw what I think was a father/daughter HB9. Course of action open the father. He goes around trying to look for the bus timetable. I pull out my blackberry and pretend to do something on it. "The bus will be here in 5 mins". "Okay thanks". "It's cold huh?" "Yeah, winter's coming... and I don't like it". "Yeah and I thought it was bad yesterday" they both laugh. And then convo died.

Lessons: I should've turned around and baited them. I had never seen them before and it looked like they had their work ids around their neck. I should have said "Going downtown huh?" and proceeded from there. Or applied some bait tactics, oh well. At least I had the balls to open a HB9 with her father present. So I win... right?

[FR8] Two girls HB5 and HB9 are talking about the crowded bus. Basically near me, I turn my body to face them and wait for an opening. Bam I get one and convo begins. We talk for about 5-10 mins. The whole time HB5 and me are talking with HB9 observing. Both HBs were giving off good IOIs but was disappointed that HB9 was shy! Does this happen? Are beautiful women socially lame than average folk?

Lessons: Need to learn how to engage the target and not the person I opened. Opening is fine, but you also need to control the flow of the convo and direct it. This taught me that I'm wired to do 1-on-1 conversations. I might have to train myself on group convos and how to control it it. I should have also DHV. Oh well, I did have fun in the convo though.

So thoughts? I seem to eject too soon too. I fail to escalate and qualify. And kino at this point is non-existent. But again I am improving, so it will take some time.

tl;dr 8 FRs