I'm 32 and single after a relationship spanning half a decade. Currently or in any foreseeable future, not looking for relationship, so when I found myself single I was pretty concerned how to go about approaching women without seeming like I want a relationship or just coming off as wanting sex. Lying was also out of the question. Not really into dating or hook up apps. It took awhile to build the social life back up. What I found out works for me is just meeting girls as friends, and genuinely not caring if it leads to sex. Almost every single time it does, and they have been pretty cool about not having any expectation of a relationship. I am up front about my mindset (not wanting a gf/wife). They do have to feel safe and respected,but when it comes to sex women are not much diff then us. I see a lot of younger guys taking everything personally and trying to conquer women. Much as I did in my 20s, maybe a more laid back and casual approach would work better for some. You still have to get numbers, and this way may take longer then usual but when you get it right it sure makes sex life easier. At least for me it did. DISCLAIMER tho I don't even attempt anything with girls a lot younger then me. So I have no clue how it would work with girls in early 20s.