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| 1 | Just moved to Long Beach, looking for some people to go out with and meet peopleIt's funny, and I don't think it was intentional, but this post actually illustrates the perfect approach. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Green-lights then she goes cold?If it's not obvious already, there's no explanation that will suffice. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Green-lights then she goes cold?The lack of awareness is strong with this one. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop the fear of what other people think of me in a crowded location?Do you give a shit about those other people in crowded places? Are you being super judgemental toward them? Are you looking to see if anyone is doing anyting "weird"? Probably not. Those other people also don't give a shit about you. Thinking that you're the center of attention in a crowded area is like any other fear or anxiety - it's an illusion not based in reality. Also, if you're feeling weird, just pick your head up and look around. You'll probably notice that everyone is paying attention … | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 05:31 PM |
| 0 | Calling to set up a hangout.You ever seen an infomercial where the make the most basic task look impossible? Like it's a guy struggling to fold laundry or something comically easy. That's how you make phone calls sound. | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Calling to set up a hangout.You ever seen an infomercial where the make the most basic task look impossible? Like it's a guy struggling to fold laundry or something comically easy. That's how you make phone calls sound. | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 04:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This should be a slam dunk for you dude, post updates afterward. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 07:22 PM |
| 2 | [Douche Alert] I’m hot and I don’t know how to hook up... what is the college hookup culture?You spotted an important issue. Let's look at it logically. I think everyone will agree that's it's easier to gain "just friends" as opposed to picking up girls. So the theory goes, if you have trouble making "normal friends," you're going to have a hell of time picking up chicks. Start by making friends and evolve from there. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How to gain immediate respect and value?How do you become valuable? Simple, by adding value. I'm sure you have that one friend, let's call him "Mike." Man, Mike is so fucking cool, always cracking jokes, fun to be around, high energy, life of the party. All of those things that Mike is doing adds value - emotionally, physically, etc. Walk into a room and go "I am going to have the most amount of fun here, no one will out-fun me." The only way to do that is adding value to others. Crack jokes, make the conversation about the other pers… | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Calling to set up a hangout.You just haven't spoken to any imaginative or slick dudes on the phone. I wanna see how witty you are in real time, not give you infinite time to think of a response via text. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 07:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR]sometimes less is moreHalf a decade, aka five years in normal speak LOL | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 06:54 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Sounds like you got it teed up pretty good all by yourself man. If you do coffee first just keep the energy. "Man this coffee good!" "This place is so cool" "Can't wait to whoop your ass at air hockey in a little." It's cliche but "Girls just wanna have fun," is true as fuck. You'll add the most value to her by keeping her energy up and having a good time. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Gym, Advice and Experiences?The chicks in full makeup with their hair done are definitely looking for attention. Start there. Personally, I don't do it because I like my alone time at the gym, but if you live in a big city, your gym is probably full of sloots. I'm in a big city in Southern California, so I can confirm. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Unsure what to do with this girlAwareness, or lack of awareness, in my opinion, is the most monumentally important attribute that the average person just doesn't have. For instance, losers don't walk around going "I'm a loser." Betas don't walk around going "I'm a beta," they typically lack the awareness. If they had the awareness to notice that, they would by default have the skill-set to change their behaviors. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm 22 and want to hook up with a milf. Will it be hard since I'm so young? How do I start?Nothing gives older chicks more validation than the attention of a young man. Older chicks are also hornier and more experienced. | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I think cold approach has died."I'm young and have limited experience, let me tell you what's what." | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | [28/M] Can I ever become a sexual being or is it far too late?Username checks out | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 05:16 PM |
| 3 | She said she has a boyfriend - now she doesn't. Oh Yeah.100% | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 10:07 PM |
| 7 | Maximize your chances of winning before you even open your mouth"Having a good time with friends before you even approach her" Cannot stress this point enough, this is lost on so many guys. If a group of single guys goes out and ACTUALLY HAS FUN ENJOYING EACH OTHERS COMPANY, they will pull more chicks than they know what to do with. There is a lot of truth to that old Cyndi Lauper song, "Girls just wanna have fun." | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out in person for the first timeUse that momemtum to keep going forward. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | [28/M] Can I ever become a sexual being or is it far too late?Working with a mental professional might be a good starting point. But hey, what do doctors know AMIRIGHT!?! | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | The paradox of outcome independenceGreat analogy. It's basically not being afraid to fail. That's all we are talking about here. "It took Thomas Edison 10,000 tries to get the lightbuild right...blah blah" Moral of the story, keep trying and don't give up. Be willing to suck shit while you're learning a new skill. Bruce Lee got his motherfucking ass whooped for the first few years of training Martial Arts, Michael Jordan sucked dick at basketball the first couple years, etc. etc. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | How to be more masculine?Honest question, Do you love yourself? Gotta love & give to yourself first before you can love & give others. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I approached a 9 today and got her number!Agreed, your last sentence made me LOL. Desperation/Neediness is a stinky cologne, people pick up on that. Homeless people are needy, that's why they get ignored. Shitty salespeople are needy, that's why they get ignored. And so on and so forth. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | I approached a 9 today and got her number!"Hi my name is Zeppelinzoso, what's your name?" "Hey, I like your dress/watch/hair/makeup/car/book your reading, I'm Zeppelinzoso, nice to meet you" "Hey, you have a really positive attitude/vibe, I like that, just wanted to say Hi and introduce myself, I'm zeppelinzoso" | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 09:02 PM |
| 7 | She said she has a boyfriend - now she doesn't. Oh Yeah.Social Status was everything when humans lived in small tribes, the instincts haven't changed. Powerful shit for people that understand the dynamics. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Started gaming hoes. Will post fr every weekPractice makes perfect. Keep it up man. | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You.AKA "Law of Attraction" | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Started gaming hoes. Will post fr every weekIt's all interesting man. Here were are, two strangers communicating in real time on a speck of dust hurdling through the infinitely expanding universe while revolving around a giant nuclear explosion. And we're all gonna die, some soon some later. Go out and GIVE of yourself tonight, watch what you GET in return. And rememeber, everyone else at the mall or the club is so inside of their own head and worried about themselves, they aren't paying attention to you. Play like noone is watching. | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Started gaming hoes. Will post fr every weekBro, you are out there trying, AND you realize that you have areas that need work. You're taking action and being self aware. This already makes you Successful & a Winner. Keep it up, you only fail when you stop trying. Everybody sucks until they get good. | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | If picking up women is difficult....Sowwy yowr feewings got hurted | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | If picking up women is difficult....Bro, my wife is a CFP, she studied for the exam for less than a month. 1,000 hours? Are you retarded? "not in your control," "had similar problems," "where things went wrong," Bruh, what are you even talking about? Your metrics mean nothing to me and your language is horrible. Treat yourself better homie. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Approaching At The Gym?... When Every Woman Wears Headphones!Ah gotcha, let me clarify. Personally, I don't want to run into chicks I banged at establishments I enjoy frequenting on a regular basis. "Don't shit where you eat." This could be a non-issue for some people. Just my preference. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Approaching At The Gym?... When Every Woman Wears Headphones!If you're in a big city, the gyms will be flooded with chicks like this. Getting numbers/hookups will be easy if you're into chics like that. | /r/seduction | 19/05/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Approaching At The Gym?... When Every Woman Wears Headphones!I don't want to see chicks at the gym that I've fucked and moved on from. That's where the "don't shit where you eat comes from." | /r/seduction | 19/05/18 02:38 PM |
| 8 | Approaching At The Gym?... When Every Woman Wears Headphones!The ones that want to be approached at the gym will make it super obvious, they are usually attention seekers, loud, tits/ass out, lots of make-up. If you live in a big city, your gym will have at least a handful. But yeah, like someone else said, shitting where you like to hang out is risky. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Going out tonight for my birthday, wish me luckYou look fine dude, quit all the negative self talk. Enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 11:26 PM |
| 2 | The Unexpected Cause of All Your InsecuritiesSelf Awareness is the gift I wish I could give to everyone. Lack of awareness is RAMPANT. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | If picking up women is difficult...."This might be the most useless post in the history of reddit" | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone followed a graded action plan based on Mark Manson's Models?Keep pouring your energy into those semicolons. Grammar is important. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 07:04 PM |
| -2 | If picking up women is difficult....I'll make sure to post some sugar coated Tony Robbins sounding bullshit next time. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone followed a graded action plan based on Mark Manson's Models?How's all this research and analyses working out for you? | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone followed a graded action plan based on Mark Manson's Models?What have you accomplished that was really difficult? Like really, really, really difficult. If picking up women is the hardest thing you've ever done - that's your problem dude. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 11:28 PM |
| 2 | I feel such a sense of sadness and frustration right now (23/M)You obviously have a really attractive attitude. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Crazy ex story...Ignore and move on with your life. That simple. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Got a date - but in 2 weeks. How to keep interest?Be interesting. Like, literally, do interesting shit. That simple. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 11:21 PM |
| -1 | Daytime 35yo guy Cold Approach LOGDid you mean to post this on /r/cringe ? | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Proof race which are inadvertently, looks) matters a lot...."a dogmatic number of opportunities"... wtf? | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Asked co-worker out on date. DM picture posted. How to respond?If you're on this sub asking for advice from people you don't know, you lack awareness. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a guy with a GFYes | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a guy with a GF6/10, at best. | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this opener?100%. Why does shit like this seem so esoteric? ^ | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this opener?Or don't be a fucking weirdo and just say "what's up?" Works 100% of the time if you have an ounce of self awareness. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 09:49 PM |
| 3 | “Fuck It” -- The Magic Words -- How I Learned to Approach Any Girl.This is like Columbus "discovering" America...a place where people were ALREADY LIVING. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Due to a change in relationship status, I had to move back in with my mom. How do I reliably get girls to bring me back to their place?Doesn't matter how old. Dude took a huge step backwards, he was out on his own, now he's living with mom. It's a shitty, embarrassing situation. Dude needs to work on his personal situation and only worry about chicks if it comes up organically. If you're losing at life - what are you gonna talk to chicks about? Is he going to lie about his living situation? Say he's in a really happy/content spot in life? That would be super incongruent. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 03:45 AM |
| -3 | Im tired of girls and their games..You being latino doesn't make it any less weird. You specifically pointed out the race of the girl for no reason, that's weird. It's a useless detail. "I went out with this chick, she had on a purple shirt." If the purple shirt doesn't play significance to the story, why the fuck would you mention it? A normal white person wouldn't say, "I went out with this white chick...." A normal black person wouldn't say, "I went out with this black chick....." | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 03:43 AM |
| 0 | [FR] I was set up on a blind date by strangers I met the previous day!*CRINGE ALERT. Good Lord would you look at all those parenthesis, bolding and italicizing.* | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 01:30 AM |
| -6 | Im tired of girls and their games..Is her being Latina pertinent to the story? Or is that just the lowkey latent racism coming out? | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 01:28 AM |
| -4 | Due to a change in relationship status, I had to move back in with my mom. How do I reliably get girls to bring me back to their place?If you lack the awareness to notice that your life is out of alignment, there's no advice here that's going to benefit you. Moving in with you mom should be horribly embarrassing to you, if you're missing that emotion, there's no cure for that except maturing over time. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 01:22 AM |
| 0 | That tall, hot, well dressed, intimidating girl? She wants to get laid too!OH REALLY!? WHAT A REVELATION! I love when people feel the need to share information that falls in the domain of common knowledge. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 01:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - Solo gamin and problem with a bouncerHow's all that analyses working out for you? | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Solo gamin and problem with a bouncerUse that thing in between your ears and think about it for a while. Really try to conceptualize the way that other people perceive you from an objective perspective. | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Solo gamin and problem with a bouncerGood lord, the tone of this post. Awareness is a skill learned over time. | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Hi there, any seduction advice for an attractive but socially awkward heterosexual female?All the guys you want to interact with would rather be approached too. Most humans HATE taking initiative in all areas of life. Diet, Exercise, Business Success, Relationships, etc. You're literally saying "I'd rather take the easy route," and getting upset that it's not panning out. If taking the easy route worked, this reddit sub would not exist. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Hi there, any seduction advice for an attractive but socially awkward heterosexual female?REALLY | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like you owe a girl a relationship in order to have sexYou put all those labels on yourself brother. You see yourself as the father/husband figure. You see yourself as disarming and engaging. Pay attention to the words you speak inside your mind, be a little bit kinder and more encouraging to yourself. Also, is it not in the realm of possibility that you could change the MIND of a girl in her late 20's? Isn't it possible you could meet chicks, tell them what's on your MIND, EXPLAIN to them what you're INTO - and those new IDEAS could potentially res… | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Hi there, any seduction advice for an attractive but socially awkward heterosexual female?"I guess I'd like men to approach me in social situations." So......... you'd rather stay in your comfort zone and put the burden of potential rejection the person approaching you? Never heard of a woman using that strategy before. You talk about spontaneity, but you sound about as outgoing as a pile of lint. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to meet girls in bars and what tips do you have for a newcomer to the scene?Best way is to show up and be genuine. Don't be weird. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Too shy to start something"I would love to hang out with you if you want too as well, I was thinking we would do XYZ on THIS DATE at THIS TIME, let me know if you want to do that." | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How To Text Women - Stop Overthinking It And Do This InsteadNever let ANYONE, male of female, waste your time. EVER. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Feeling like you owe a girl a relationship in order to have sexIs it in the realm of possibly that you're the common denominator to the issue? | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Has getting ripped had a noticeable impact on your interactions with women?Think about everyone you admire, male or female. I bet they are all very accomplished and did difficult things. Weights/Music/Running/BusinessSuccess all fall into the category of "Difficult Shit." People appreciate and become attracted to other people that do "Difficult Shit." | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | 22 years old and never been with a girl. Desperate for help.The language you speak inside your mind will dictate your reality. Change your inner monologue. Speak sweetly to yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:39 AM |
| 2 | The art or being noble.Some girls are into Cucks I guess. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How can I be always ready to approach?Be on Your Purpose 100% of the time. Shoulders back, chest out, chin up. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Hi there, any seduction advice for an attractive but socially awkward heterosexual female?So you have a girlfriend with small tits? Chics with big tits are untrustworthy? WTF are you trying to say? | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected and didn't feel like shit.You will do well in sales. Introspection and Self Awareness is VERY RARE, keep those flames Lit. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:29 AM |
| 1 | KEY TIP TO LAND A BOMBUndervaluing, attention seeking, validation needing, retroactive pedestal placing - what else did we miss here? Barry Sanders never spiked the football because he's BEEN IN THE ENDZONE BEFORE. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:28 AM |
| – | Hi there, any seduction advice for an attractive but socially awkward heterosexual female?OK Romeo, like you don't think Ass & Titties are attractive. Fuck outta here with that Nicholas Sparks Love at First Sight, You Complete Me BULLSHIT. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants to be friends after 1 night stand?You're winning here, don't fuck this up. Be cool. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | FIRST COFFEE DATE IN LONG TIME"Yeah bro, we got coffee at 10am and then fucked the shit out of each other!" You're already friendzoned, that's why it's a Coffee "date." | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriendsIt's funny what you can find when you stop searching. I never understand people that "NEED a boyfriend/girlfriend." GROSS. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | If I'm 35, is trial and error the only way forward?I can tell you speak very harshly to yourself inside your mind. Change that first. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Liked me ? Or just wanted to sell ?You'd be a big hit at the Strip Club. "Most of the guys that come in here are losers, but not YOU, YOU'RE different!" | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | 2nd date tonight, acted like a beta in-between 1st and 2nd. How should I play it?Homie, I could rattle off a list of One Million thing you need to be worried about, and this ain't it. You got a date with a chic you think is cute, go have FUN. GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Help me stop getting friendzonedBased on the length of your post - you think too much and are too worried about what other people think about you. Change the language you speak to yourself inside your mind. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:10 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]LOL define "normal." If you're not good company for yourself, you're not going to be good company for someone else. If you get lonely/bored, it means you're off your purpose. When you start spending 100% of your time doing EXACTLY what you want to be doing, you will need to beat girls off you with a stick. This is what no one wants to believe - work really hard on yourself, do shit YOU think is impressive - Guess What? - then other people will be impressed & attracted to you. What do you offer t… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You're in the friendzone dawg, get used to it. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Hi there, any seduction advice for an attractive but socially awkward heterosexual female?If you're truly cute, guys would still be trying to fuck you even if you're weird. Something is off. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 11:53 PM |
| 15 | [deleted by user]"because you should never expect a yes IMO." Do you think this is how the inner monologue of a Confident Person sounds? As a human being, you are full of so much potential & creativity. Stop limiting your beliefs with bullshit slogans like the abovementioned, speak better to yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Tips on cold approaches, I’m gonna go out and try this for the first time tonightPut out a good vibe and watch the girls come to you bro. Convince yourself that your the happiest and most confident person in the room and you will kill it. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Tips on cold approaches, I’m gonna go out and try this for the first time tonightChange the way you speak to yourself brother. You are so full of potential as a human being, stop belittling yourself. "I'm not expecting this to go anywhere." If that's your expectation, then Guess What, you've already determined how your night is going to go. Instead, say this to yourself, "Tonight, I'm going to go out and be as happy as I can be and have as much fun as possible with as many people as possible. I'm cool as fuck and I enjoy sharing time with other cool people." | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 11:18 PM |
| 2 | If you have to remind a girl about a date, should I move on?Do this - text her the day before your date and say, "hey so&so, looking forward to hanging out tomorrow, just making sure we're still on for time&place." This shows your assertive, guarded of your time, and indifferent. It shouldn't matter if the date happens or not, you've got a harem of bitches waiting for your phone call, right?? (that's the vibe you're gonna put off) Only three scenarios can play out, she's going to confirm and you guys will go out and have a great time. OR she will ask to … | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | I don't have a fear of being rejected. I have a fear of people seeing me being rejected.You'll go for it if you're really interested. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 11:05 PM |
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