So just a quick background. About three months ago, I started chatting up a girl online. She seemed interested in me. She was asking me questions and I made so many jokes. Then I invited her out on a friday to a bar. She said she didn't have a ride so she would see. We talked almost everyday until that wednesday and then her responses kept on getting shorter and shorter. I asked for her number she said she doesn't have a phone. Then she mentioned trying to sell a car and she asked me if she wanted to buy it. So now I thought she was using me. I find her on facebook. She has a bunch of pictures with her and this guy kissing. I finally decided to give up and she never replied back to my last message.

Fast forward 3 months later, I see her pop up again on the site. I check her facebook and she's removed everything of her boyfriend so I hit her up. She reads and doesn't respond. I delete my message to her so I don't have to see it. Then maybe two days later she responds and asks how I am doing. Her response rate is very slow. It takes about 5-10 minutes after she reads them to reply. Since I’m already doing other things, I wait to finish whatever I’m doing and then I respond whenever she does reply back. I make a small joke and she starts asking where I live again. I'm thinking maybe she wants to come over and have some fun. But I really don’t care because I have a date anyway. Then she starts asking if there is a room she can rent. I tell her my housing is students only. I was going to suggest another place but I was like "Nope. If she's going to try to use me, I'm going to use her." I asked her if she was still down to do something. She said sure but not this weekend.

So I got my main girl down today (friday) and her next weekend possibly. I don't want to name a particular day or place yet cause I'm still busy doing other things. I told her I would hit her up sometime next week if I was free. I kept conversation short and sweet. I don't plan on contacting her until 2-3 days before I wanna go out. If she flakes, I don’t really care.