I've been a long time lurker here on Seddit for a little under a year now, I've learned alot about myself and how to handle women in a more alpha manner. Just a quick run-through I've never had too much of social anxiety with girls, I just never really knew how to get past the fact that a woman is just another person, just like you and me. By really working on realizing this I've been able to get past the "friend-zone" I found myself in quite ofen, because I never attempted to escalate in any way. By taking control and being assertive with the what I want, I've been able to pull quite a few girls since a LTR I was in recently. I'm no longer too interested in getting with random chicks without having a connection...just find it to to be trivial, even if it does end in a F or K close. I started college a month ago, and I've been able to get quite a few IOIs from chicks on campus but nothing I've found worth pursuing. Last night that changed.

I was going to a buddies little house party he was having at his condo. I had been there a few times for parties before and had met the neighbors and go acquainted with what I thought were all the residents of the corner of their complex. I was wrong. I came to the party a little late with a few other friends, they had a 5 buy in for alcohol but we just brought some burger and brats instead. The second I got there I was looking for the grill, I was hungry and it was getting late, I had a good amount of food and the party holder had told me it was alright if I went to the neighbors to use their grill. I walked over there shootin the shit with people as I was on the way there, getting my social groove on. When I got to the neighbors house there was a girl there I had never seen before. She was a HB 9.5 and I'm a rather picky person. I walked up to her and smiled at her.

Me: I don't believe we've met, I'm Leafy

I shake her hand and give her a big shit eating grin looking her right in the ey

Me: Are you one of the crazy roommates who live here?

She smiles and looks me deadset in the eyes as she takes my hand and gives it a soft squeeze, I have a pretty firm hand shake and as soon as she notices she squeezes my hand even more, I curl my index finger against the inside of her palm from the response and she grins even more.

Her: My name is Andy and I may be one of those crazy roommates.

I smile back at her and look over at the grill before looking back at her

Me: Well I would really hope you are because I was just going to ask you if I could use the grill....tell ya the truth I was going to use it with or without you're blessing.

I follow that with another Shit eating grin

She smiles again and tells me she is the roommate and Im more than welcome to use the grill. When we first started talking she said she was going to head back to the party, but we ended up talking for a good 30-45 mins, talked her up, really got to know her, and hit it off really really well. While I was grilling it was dark and she quickly become my "lightholder" as I flipped the burgers and turned the brats, used the close proximity to execute huge amounts of Kino running my hand up and down her back, nudging the light and asking her to hold it steady. Everyone from the party was being attracted to the grill and I was soon being called the grillmaster, gaining huge social proof, I was the life of the party, simply because I had started grilling(something I had been wanting to do since leaving SD) I ejected from the grill every once in a while to refill my drink and to keep myself aloof. I soon had almost all the women eating out of my hands, giving me hugs, doing everything they can to vy for my attention, even more social proof, I soon find a way to isolate the one Im going for and we begin talking more and we start ballroom dancing to the music in her apt, while we're alone, Im soon twirling her and making her qualify for me. Things begin to get hot and heavy as I begin to take control. I ended up getting a Kclose. Before I got the chance to get her number her super crazy roommate comes busting in crying about her boy problems. Not willing to stand around while things are going down, I eject next door making her want more as the heat was just building. I went to the party with the only goal of making someone laugh, I was completely outcome independant, and I was just having a good time. If it wasn't for you guys here at seddit I wouldn't have learned what I have to this point and I wouldn't have been able to pull the girl that I did, or any others since the end of my LTR for that matter. Again thanks for the help Seddit, going out and having a good time with a woman that I truly connected with is something I've wanted for a while, not just relating to the person and getting to fuck them, which is awesome, just not for me.

TL;DR: Had a great night with a girl I connected with and became the grillmaster at a house party, ended the night with a K-close from a HB 9