I've noticed in a lot of game communities that guys either declare game as

A) Daygame, cold approach on the street

B) Nightgame at a mega club loaded with people or a super busy bar

I think this mentality gets a lot of guys turned off from game, what if you don't want to randomly approach strangers on the street or what if you don't want to go to massive clubs with large crowds?

Then there's also the common excuse of

"No places are busy/good"

"I don't like going out"

and etc...

Game can be done basically anywhere at any place, it just matters in figuring out places you already LIKE going to and then meeting girls at these places.

Basically..congruency.

And the venue DOESN'T have to be busy. All you need is one attractive girl and you can game her.

That's it.

I had a fun date with a Scottish girl at a cafe I was at, it wasn't even really busy she was reading a book and I went up and asked what she was reading. Then we chatted and later grabbed drinks.

Another fun way I "game" girls it by playing on their natural curiosity. I'll go to a cafe and purposely put all of my shit on the table, which is usually a few books, camera, laptop and my journal. I'll catch girls checking me out, wondering what I'm working on and then when I decide it's time for a "break" I'll approach one of the girls.

I don't go to clubs, I enjoy bars with a decent music scene which usually attract a more "mature" crowd. These places I'm naturally drawn to.

So let's give an example to help you guys out.

Let's say you're a big nerd, you like gaming and don't enjoy typical bars or clubs.

But you want pussy...

So where do you go?

Well, one solution I can think of outside of improving yourself and quitting gaming is to find one of those board game bars / gaming bars. These places will have people you're going to feel somewhat comfortable around and I'm sure there's going to be girls there.

But what do you say?

How do you approach?

How about...

"Is that a fun game? I've never played it."

"Do you come here often?"

Then you start chatting and you could invite her to play a video game / board game with you.

See how fun game can be?

I think that's the MOST IMPORTANT thing with game. It has to be FUN.

Thankfully, the only limits are your own creativity.

You can meet girls a million different ways and you don't have to be the super loud, charming, funny guy either.

If that's not you, then don't force yourself to be someone you're not. I have no interest in being a stereotypical type "A" personality, I play up my inner artist, deep connection to the world and the fact that I can focus very intensely on things in my own game. These are things that type "A" guys can't offer and if you frame yourself as confident, secure in yourself and a leader of your own world (not OTHERS your OWN) girls will be attracted.

In a broader scope, I believe every man should go deep inside himself and figure out who and what he is. Once you've discovered those things and are comfortable with them you can use them to your advantage.