Two questions

  1. There isnt much reading on the internet about this. Only thing I have seen is something in Book of Pook. Im just unsure how to game a girl with a BF. You cant really ask her out on a date as ive read that they need plausible deniability. Do you just keep flirting with them and hope to sneak a kiss in?

  2. Are these IOIs,

- One on one, she was showing me a old picture of her self. I was playing with her hair, she didnt move away. Im not gonna make excuses but I lost my balls, I had a chance to kiss her, and we was alone for once.

- she texts me everyday, and a double text when I am slow to reply.

- she mirrors my image sometimes, for example I put my chin in my hands, and lean across the table.

- I tried to get a little flirty the yesterday, just light KINO, eye contact and just asking her questions. she later told me 'I saw your flirty side tonight' Is this her confirming I should keep hitting on her

- she calls me a player. She interrupts when other guys are talking about girls who know me. she will say things like "do you plan on sleeping with every girl in town"

- she once sent me a huge essay becuase I didn't attend her birthday party. and she was angry over it

- she has a BF, but I have heard her say to other girls on how its not working for her, how he doesnt go out, and how he gone fat and lazy.