Shout out to u/Turlast for sparking the idea to write this.

I have not been with an amazingly large number of women. I have had success, though, using tips and tricks from this sub as well as having some "natural game."--read confidence.

This is not going to be how to pick the girl out of the crowd that will sleep with you first try, this is just how I approach the game.

The first step is to find an attractive girl or a few if you are in a club/bar setting. Approach her and do what you do, this is not what I am giving advice on. Feel her out, though. Definitely try to read her and how she feels about you. If you have gotten more than five talking minutes out of her without the conversation going cold, you are well on your way.

What I look for is that connection where you get along and can have a good time together. If I do not feel this in a relatively short period, I move on. I only put in effort where I feel it will pay off. And this may be lazy of me, but it’s not like I only talk to one girl when out, I am definitely testing all the available water (at least the water I find attractive) and getting a feel for how each one receives me.

I am very quickly realizing this will not be all that helpful but hear me out. The girls I have slept with upon first meet I have known within 5 minutes of our interaction that we would be sleeping together if nothing was severely ruined before we got to bed. And that is exactly the feeling I look for.

TL;DR: Test the waters, go for the girl who is feeling you the most, don’t waste effort on girls who are not feeling you unless you deem them worthy.