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[–]MasterTeacher123 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Do you break the touch barrier on these dates? Do you offer them a chance to come back to your place?
A lot of guys go on dates and essentially act like the girls brother not escalating anything
[–]EquipmentSecret7967 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I usually hug either at the start or/and the end of the date, but i usually avoid touching a lot because i feel kinda that I might make then uncomfortable
[–]Therocksays2020 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah well there’s your answer.
You have to put yourself out there to escalate. You don’t need to grope them. Start simple. Grabbing their hand. Patting their arm.
If they’re into it they will reciprocate and you go from there.
Sounds like you’ve been firmly friend zoning your damn self
[–]EquipmentSecret7967 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok thanks for the help will take your advice!
[–]Adribus 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
let us know how it goes !
[–]MasterTeacher123 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Um that’s your problem right there
[–]CompetitionFair7686 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Touch needs to be part of how you communicate not just with girls but with literally everyone. It needs to be something natural in the way you express yourself that everyone including your family and male friends know you as the guy that touches people.
When you make touch part of your natural way of expressing yourself, people are more tolerant and receptive of it, because they know you are not doing something creepy or out of the ordinary, but instead it’s just something you without any sexual connotations.
Touching everyone from the beginning in a non sexual way, like high fives, hand shakes, playful pushes,… etc breaks the “invisible” touch barrier in a more comfortable way, which allows you later to touch her in a more intentional and intimate way without raising alarms.
Without touch things can’t go in the romantic/sexual direction.
You also need to tel her that you are into her, act like it’s too hot in here because of her, act like you can’t help but be nervous with how she smiles at you,… etc Just basically act like you like her not as a friend but as a woman that sexually stimulates you.
[–]EpicPaul 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its all about environment. She wont fuck you in the middle of the mall. What i found is good is to go on a quick date (preferably after dinner) and if youre vibing, ask if shes doing anything after and if she wants to watch tv at your place and cuddle/escalate from there
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