Getting back in the Game

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-03-28T17:00:54+00:00

Go up to the first girl you think is cute and just walk boldly to her, make eye contact, smile and say "hey, I saw you sitting here and wanted to come over and say hi...what is your name?"

Then find something interesting about her, something she is holding, wearing, or doing, and compliment it and ask her about it. (not her looks)

For example: "I fucking love your hair color...what do you call it...do you dye it yourself? Do you ever go blond?"

or

"hey...I love your little leather jacket...where did you get it?"

Listen to her answers and ask her to "Tell me more..."

All along, keeping good eye contact and smile.

Thats it, let us know how it goes for you!

Also, if you start to engage the girls:

When you meet a girl for the first time, you do not want to “over talk”, or “ramble on” to fill discussion voids, you want to try and foster natural, 2-way communication patterns that will make the girl feel more naturally at ease. Also, people like to talk about themselves, a lot. So the goal is to also use her natural desire to talk, and to have her open up and talk more about herself. This is how you get to know her.

That’s why you try to ask open ended questions. Questions that can’t be answered with a Yes, No, Fine, OK, Sure, Maybe…) Good open ended questions get to the heart of who the girl really is, the how or why she does the things, or lives the life, she does.

The goal is to get out her emotions, her motivations, and to figure out her character. You do this by getting her to talk about her dreams, goals, and accomplishments. This is where you try to get an emotional connection. You need to listen to what she says, find something interesting, and try and get more information out.

So when you start with a weak question like:

YOU: Where are you from?

Her: [Small Town in Ohio]

YOU: Oh, so why are you in Philadelphia?

Her: I moved to go to school here… (This is where most guys loose it)

YOU-BAD: Oh, so what’s your major, you look smart! (Nerdy, bad question)

YOU-GOOD: Oh, so you relocated for school, how did you feel about moving from a small town to such a big city…? (Great, open ended, emotional question, maybe get to a goal or a dream of hers…)

Another words, never ask a girl whats her major, ask her why she picked her major....

Jack__Knife · 2017-03-28T17:18:37+00:00

Just go to have fun. High Fives is a great place to start. Tipping your server or bartender well is a good idea. They can help 'wing'.

There's a little routine I've used that works well in a fun bar.

Ask your server or bartender for a piece of paper and a sharpie.

Wright 'Wish you we'er here.' On it. Get out your cool iPhone 7. Go up to a couple cuties and say. "My buddy was supposed to meet me out, now the fag is gonna' stand me up, you wanna help me show him what he missed?" Stand in the middle and have someone take the picture. Then look. Instant new friends.

t1mman · 2017-03-28T17:21:57+00:00

Magic pills don’t work. Just understand that you get the reward related to the risk you are willing to take.

Happy hour is meant to be light, fun, be social and live on the moment. Don’t take it all to seriously and have some fun.

Title	Getting back in the Game
Author	GeminiSoulsTy33
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	March 28, 2017 4:03 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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