Getting Ex-Diva back? (Seducing her?)

nominally · 2014-12-21T23:56:50+00:00

The oneitis is strong with this one.

SiXXEros · 2014-12-21T23:46:43+00:00

Forget about the past. That's the first part. Acknowledge that the woman who shows up to grab a beer with you may be polar opposite of "your slut." Go there with zero expectations, especially sexually, and keep only one goal in mind: discovering who she is NOW. Not to see if you can "get it all back."

Second, if sex is in the script it's not going to happen with you fretting over it like a little boy who just got his first nut during his sleep.

Treat it like discovering an old friend and focus on the growth of the last year. How you've succeeded, what you're goals have been, how driven you are to reach them, etc. Focus on hers as well. Barely mention the guy or not at all. It's ending so obviously he doesn't matter.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-12-21T23:49:50+00:00

They should've asked you to post it in /r/askSeddit. :p

Title	Getting Ex-Diva back? (Seducing her?)
Author	Throwawayyyydating
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	December 21, 2014 11:20 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2q0i7q/getting_exdiva_back_seducing_her/
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