So I recently tried online dating, met with one girl but after a couple of dates and a kiss now she stopped texting me. After educating myself a little I know now that she was shittesting me on last time we met and I failed all of them and what's worse I was soo attatched to her I didn't even noticed them! and demonstrated my insecurities.

I was reading once in a while about the game, know a couple of techniques but after I succesfully gain a girl's interest on the first date it's like I become that weak man I have always been before.

I'm sick of this. I want to get good at it and change my mindset for good, to always be ready to talk to a girl, don't care about what others think and just have fun while I will search for LTR material.

So. Can You guys reccomend some books about seduction, becoming a high value person, or rather how to convince myself, not for a day but for the rest of my life that I can have what I want? How to not fall into someone after 2 weeks of dating and screw up because of that?

I have beed motivated by the last failure and I ditched online dating today. Going into the field trying my first cold approaches today. Any advice/books/useful thoughts will be greatly appreciated.

Take care everyone!