So I've been doing game for a couple years now and it's been awesome for me. When I was younger the only women I could get were girls I was not attracted to and people made fun of me for it. I was a loser. A few years later and I'm by no means James Bond, but I have had much more success attracting women on a regular basis that I am attracted to. I say this not to impress anyone, but simply to iterate that I more or less no what I'm doing.

Or at least I thought I did, lately I just moved to the Bay Area and I have really struggled with understanding the mindset of the women I'm speaking to. I feel like a conversation, whether through text or person, is going fantastically. We both are opening up, things are looking good, then suddenly with seemingly no reason she ghosts or leaves.

I moved here from a smaller town and I feel like this just might be the way bigger city ladies are, can anyone else who underwent a similar move confirm? Do I just forget about it and move on? Or do I need to re-assess if maybe I am somehow disqualifying my self in a way I hadn't previously considered? Anyone's thoughts would be welcome!