I live in a foreign country where English isn't the first language. I mainly use tinder to meet girls cos I have a busy schedule.

I haven't gotten as many matches with good looking girls in the past while. When I do, we talk a little bit, and I try to get a number early, talk a bit more on whatsapp or text, then ask them if they wanna meet up in a day or two (I'm super busy).

When I send a text the night before or day of to confirm, I get the excuses like "oh I'm busy." If it happens twice with the same girl I break contact. They sometimes tell me they'll message me when they're free but then no reply.

I think this has happened to me about 5 times in a row now all with different girls. It's getting me down a bit, I haven't been on a date in about 2 months. What am I doing wrong?