I’ve been having this problem with night game… I’m a 6 ft+, 7.5/10 asian male who gets looks from most women in the club (mostly asian, but all ethnicities apply). Every time I go out, I show good initial body language and manage to attract a girl into dancing together / minor kino on the dance floor. Honestly; most of the time they initiate. However, I’m hesitant to touch them beyond being in their personal space and find it hard to “be entitled” (in PUA language) to follow them around, escalate etc. I have even made out with them but failed to establish enough comfort to iso / pull to new venue / or even pull to the bar for a drink. This has happened 9/10 times I’ve been out this year. They end up getting bored + losing interest and sometimes I see another guy pull them (tbh often with less physical attributes than me). I don’t think I lack confidence, I think I lack the inner mindset to put 100% effort into the close because I genuinely just enjoy dancing on my own too.

My question is what do I do after establishing initial attraction to enable same night pull or at least a number? What am I lacking in my inner game that’s preventing me from closing that initial attraction? This is pissing me off - it’s actually criminal the number of times a girl has initiated on me and I have failed to even get smth out of it :(