Long time lurker here and on a throwaway. The story so far is that I have been able to establish attraction at the beginning of interactions, but I'm having serious trouble escalating and closing. I'm a 6 ft+, 7.5/10 Asian male, so tend to get looks from a lot of girls in the club (mostly Asian but all ethnicities apply). It's pretty easy for me to establish mutual attraction and hook girls I'm interested in via eye contact or body language, but I don't think I escalate well or have enough "entitlement" (in PUA terms) to build trust, comfort, bounce around, isolate etc.

I've been out the past 2 nights and to be honest, I get initiated on more than I approach myself, and by really attractive girls too (probs bc I'm blessed with height). But even when I start dancing or even start making out, they eventually lose interest and I don't (or can't?) follow through. I think this is a inner game / mindset issue on being "entitled" enough (tho I hate this word) to stick to the girl after initial interactions. Possibly also because I have good baseline self-amusement and like to dance by myself, so the effort to be intermittently talking and grinding over the course of 30 mins to an hour to build comfort feels a bit much without feeling like a creep.

My question is - what is the inner game / mindset shift that I need to have to resolve this? Am I right in assuming it's that or am I doing outer game wrong as well? Though I can enjoy myself in clubs (that's why I like night game), I view pulling as an important life skill before I enter my next relationship and would love to get to a state where I can do that relatively consistently. Really thankful for this community and would appreciate your thoughts.