Going on my first date - How does one engage the girl with light and funny, yet deep conversations?

megaghost12 · 2019-05-18T21:03:54+00:00

Hmm the main thing to remember really is just to feel confident and allow her to feel comfortable. You don’t wanna just go from question to question it’s not really an interview ha but I get how hard it can be. Be yourself and shoot from the hip even if it’s awkward as long as you’re not being phony she’ll get to know you for you. Ask her how’s she’s doing maybe something about school so you can find out some interests she has and work from there. Maybe some life goals or like “bucket list” topics. Talk about some things that you’re passionate it about let her know that youre not just some lazy boring dude heh. Have fun, don’t be creepy and just be a gentlemen

PeithoPan · 2019-05-18T23:52:33+00:00

Try to talk about something fresh and unsual.

A simple trick is to start talking about people around you. Ask her if she could pick out who is the most likely to get the most drunk and get thrown out of the place and stuff like that.

MAke up stories about people, and have her join in. You can play with this up and down the scale.

Last time I was out, I was engaged in discussing picking up women for a threesome with a 22 year old bi. Asking for pointers on how she would proceed. Who there she would go for etc.If you only talk about the usual stuff its hard to keep up the interest.

If you are the third guy asking her where she went to school and what she studies that night, Im sure you understand she'd be bored answering that again.

quinnmcd · 2019-05-18T21:14:23+00:00

You don’t conversation points. You’ll only put more pressure on yourself. More than likely you won’t remember any conversation topics, because you’ll be so nervous (I know this from experience)

Do your best to relax and just be yourself. Ask questions about things you actually want to know about her, talk about your own interests and see what all you both have in common.

Best of luck.

Title	Going on my first date - How does one engage the girl with light and funny, yet deep conversations?
Author	indian_booty
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Date	May 18, 2019 8:30 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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