Going to a club for the second time

Sydinayy · 2022-03-16T17:16:16+00:00

For starters don’t be that guy whose low key a perv and grab each cute girl you see girls hate that but If there’s a girl that catches your eyes and compliment something of theirs that usually works for me with guys I’ll usually start with “HEYY I love that shirt or shoes” even though I could careless about it or the old reliable “do you come to this club often” don’t be shy join in the dancing if they’re getting lit just gotta show them you know how to have fun and you’re not just starting and being boring 9/10 they’re already drunk so match the energy 🙂 hope I have been of some assistance

oceans-05 · 2022-03-16T18:10:01+00:00

Best advice that has helped me is to be social the time you arrive at to the club, even better if you meet your friends before hand and you have fun. When you are at the club start talking to people IMMEDIATLY, last time I had a great time chatting with people waiting in the line and had some whine given by them. How you start a convo is very very basic you look each other in the eyes and talk either about the weather/weekend/alcohol they re drinking/questions about the club, is it your first time here? No, cool how is it. You dont need to have 5 minute conversations but just getting into the social groove. Then in the club your best bet is to have a lot of FUN. I am always dancing my own moves and I love to enjoy the music. If you are not into that than just do what you WANT to, again it is about FUN and not caring about others. The best way to "get Girls" in the club is by dancing with them and going from dancing, touching and getting closer. Talking is very bad IN the club if you want to talk that do it outside in the smoking area. Bars are different there you can approach people much more easily and here all the same things apply, start being social first. I've now reached the point where I can have fun wherever I go but I am not initiating a kiss or more, because I am still too scared. But when you are having fun with all people not just girls then it will be so much easier to get girls. Bonus tip: Where something edgy that makes you standout, but only if YOU feel comfortable in it, other than that no reason to "stand" out from ther guys.

PlusGoose8448 · 2022-03-16T23:02:02+00:00

Situational openers are key. I commented on a guys accent and we started talking about his home country. If a girl has a cool drink, ask her about it.

Title	Going to a club for the second time
Author	jellybean_cray
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	March 16, 2022 2:32 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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