I've been on tinder for a while now and have gone on many dates which usually seem to go well but for some reason it never seems to go to far. I'm not sure if it's because I'm meeting them on tinder or because I'm just not doing something right. Each date I usually go to about 2 or 3 different spots, always make sure to be funny and playful (though I'm pretty serious and logical by nature) , i don't touch that much because it feels a bit awkward, I do little touches like comparing hand size or comparing skin color or high fives and hugs but anything other then that just feels weird, I also always go for the kiss at the end and usually get one back. Im not needy and keep conversations super short on snapchat.. I also hardly post on snapchat because I don't do much other than work gym and dates here and there. After the first date is usually where they start flaking or say that they're busy which confuses the fuck out of me because during the date I usually feel they like me and it's especially confusing with the ones that do kiss me back ( I don't think my breath stinks, I use listerning strips) Im kinda on the introverted side. I recently found out my personality type is intj. Any tips or suggestions with what I may be doing wrong? I do also want to start cold approaching because my town would be perfect for it just that I get such an insane amount of approach anxiety it feels overwhelming. I've only cold approached a handful of times it just feels so uncomfortable and I'm sure its noticible to girls how uncomfortable I am. Please help someone.. I want this to be a fun summer