At first, i want to thank all sedditors that contribute to this awesome page.When I found this page,i'm still a 19 year old shy nice guy.But this page revived my cool personality that I have lost long ago. I started to pick up,chatting with women more often,and managed to have first date.This girl totally enjoyed the time with me.I desmontrated high value by not giving a fuck,teasing,push-pull.Thing is great until the final date.I asked her to be my girlfriend and got turned down. I was a bit down .Then i think:" nothing i can do,i should move on".Then I thanked her for giving me experiences,which has her surprised.Non-needyness is the best trait I learn from seddit. I want to tell all newbies here.Keep ur cool no matter what happen! ps:we still be friends,and she promised to introduce me to her hot chick friends.woohoo!