r/Seduction, I need your help.

Recently stumbled onto this sub, and it’s fucking awesome, some really solid advice. First things first, I feel as if I’m good at this whole game thing. I’ve been with a lot of girls and feel confident in my skin… but I’m currently stuck in a situation.

I have oneitis. Hard.

A few months ago I met a girl in one of my classes. Legit 8, the type of girl that goes to a bar/club and drinks for free the whole night. But I didn’t let this scare me off or anything. Started talking to her in class, eventually got her number, and got a date that we never labeled as a date.

She came over for a dinner where I initiated some light kino. After dinner we went to my room, watched a movie, and hooked up. This was months ago. We ended up having sex the next time we hung out (late Sept). It was way easier than I thought it’d be, and I think I may have even rushed it too quickly.

Anyways, we’ve had sex a couple of times, but I feel as though I’m slowly losing her interest, which really sucks because I invested a lot into this girl. 90% of the time, I text her first to initiate conversation and I tend to be the one asking her to hangout.

We also never really spend time out on the weekends. She tends to go to clubs that I don't really enjoy. I haven't had the opportunity to really meet her friends, either. I want to change this too.

I want to recapture her, regain her interest. I want her to text me first. I want her to miss me. I want her to think about me.

What the hell do I do?

Tl;dr – Met a girl. Things escalated quickly. I’m more into her than she’s into me; how do I change this?