DIRECT game vs Social media game

Social media game has become VERY popular because of the awesome platforms such as Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat where you can DHV (demonstration of high value) passively a LOT easier and more effective

The BIGGEST issue I see is that guys see it as replacement for direct cold approach game. They stop going out and this is FATAL

Direct cold approach teaches you how to deal with pain, rejections, DELAYED gratification, grit, thick skin etc all these skills which is VITAL in game…

These skills are like mental muscles, you need to maintain them by going out regularly. Ever tried going out after a week of not talking to anyone? Yup, that “rusty” feeling

Pretty much everyone falls into the category of staying in their comfort zone wanting a magic pill for good game. Sorry bruh but that’s not what I teach and sorry to break it to you but that don’t exist.

Modern society has programmed everyone to crave for instant gratification. And good game is the opposite of instant gratification.

It takes blood, sweat and tears to be good at game. That’s the bad news but the good news is I’m here to help you EASE the process to get you where you want a lot faster.

Direct cold approach game allows you to meet girls on the spot and get amazing results within HOURS.

Social Media Game is pretty much like creating a brand/business from scratch. You need to spend hours, days, even weeks to craft your profile to have significant results by taking pictures for your “online persona”

Direct Game examples:

- Cold Approach
- Day (Street) Game
- Night Game

Social Media Game examples:

- Facebook profile
- Instagram profile
- Insta Stories
- Snapchat and Stories (younger audience)
- Social Circle

If you’re starting out, solely focus on Direct Game to improve your game and social skills, such as confidence, vibing, storytelling skills, calibration, venue changing, escalation etc.

Direct game also gives you feedback from your interaction skills. Whenever you get rejected, or receive bad response, that’s when you know you need to work on your direct game skills.

DO NOT focus entirely on Social Media game if you don’t have your direct game skills sorted. Even if you do your profile won’t be congruent to your personality.

Start by going out, approaching girls, get to know them, make friends, start hosting parties, start developing your hobbies. Take pictures to “capture” that and start posting them slowly, keep doing that and build up your facebook/instagram profile to “display” your life full of adventures and of course pictures of you together with STUNNING girls as social proof.

After a period of CONSISTENT action taking, you should have a collection of high-quality pictures of your life and your “online persona”.

So the next time you approach a girl, instead of exchanging numbers, you can exchange social media (less pressure on the girl too and it’s more acceptable for them to give out their social media than a phone number)

Here’s where MAGIC happens. Women LOVE to stalk. They are natural born stalkers.

Once she sees your profile, your social media will stir the pot. She sees you with gorgeous girls, cool friends, parties, hobbies and she would have sensed you as a person as a whole.

The next time you hit her up for a date, your flaking problems will drop significantly. Your social media will be doing the “text game” for you.

And the more you build your social media and the more you do this the better the results as it’s a positive feedback loop that keep spiralling up.

Protip: Instead of faking on social media that you have an awesome lifestyle, actually BUILD A REAL AWESOME LIFESTYLE. Not sure about you but to me it’s a lot more badass and cooler to have a much more amazing lifestyle behind the scenes than faking it on social media. Girls will feel it more congruent when you tell your stories too ;)

Start going to the gym, making high quality friends, making genuine connections, focus on your business and your career, focus on improving your mindset etc

Do NOT drop direct game entirely and do NOT drop social media game entirely. They both work EXTREMELY well together.

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