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[–]AlmostWardCunningham 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Meh, I had a gf this year who wanted to hang out with me every day, and that worked out well since she always called/texted me first. That makes it much easier to not be "clingy" since I didn't have any opportunities to do so.
If a girl is playing "hard to get" then it can become total bullshit that just isn't worth it to deal with. If you don't call/text me back, then I'm going to go find someone else and she'll be single again.
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[–]AlmostWardCunningham 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you are the one who has to work hard, I'm saying dont work too hard to be around her.
Agreed.
[–]omega_kush 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Chicks arent worth your time...fuck them and move on
[–]ChelseaDagger14 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"If your game works the first few days and then if she gets distant... It means you are acting clingy or emo."
She may have got a better offer or been busy or just like the attention. I dislike when we work in absolutes for human responses.
[–]imnotdonking 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Maybe just bc I’m old but I don’t get story etiquette? I hear girls complain that so and so is still checking their stories. Why/when am I not supposed to check stories? Especially if we’re talking/dating.
[–]r0tcel 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are they talking about their exes?
[–]RaffNFreddy 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Check ‘em when you want. Don’t when you’re busy or don’t wanna.
[–]r0tcel -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
We're just making sure you aren't hanging with any other guys. We don't give a fuck what else you do.
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[–]r0tcel -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Well personally I do it to make sure that she isn't hanging out with guys who are more attractive to me.
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[–]r0tcel 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I know. When I'm "gaming" a girl, I usually wait 3-12 hours to view her story on Snapchat, unless she's in my recents (where I would view it instantly). I usually never watch her Instagram stories.
Should I stop doing viewing them instantly if they're on my recents (like they're one of the say, last 10 people I've texted on Snapchat)?
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[–]r0tcel 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Let me counter you with this: I'm a very attractive man. Like 8/9 out of 10 and 6'3". You know that men like me automatically intimidate the fuck out of women, so my strategy has been to try not to take the "hard-to-get" game too far.
I don't want casual sex, I want a girlfriend.
One girl I had sex with admitted she got sexually assaulted to me, and I guess I didn't respond "quick" enough, because when I admitted I had feelings for her she harshly rejected me.
This girl later told my main girl (I don't think she knew at the time I had another girl I was talking to) that I cheated on her.
This is why I PM'd you. My own fucking life makes no sense to me.
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[–]r0tcel 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The only reason I want a girlfriend is so I can have someone to come inside raw every night. I still want to be able to fuck girls on the side for validation reasons.
[–]SwissFucker 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean I get the reason, rawdoging is the best, but then you could also just get a FWB arrangement for that. Both can fuck around but only raw with each other.
Personally I dislike cheating for any reason. Just find someone with whom you can communicate and therefore are able to get the kind of relationship that fits your needs. An open relationship or polyamory comes to mind.
The funny thing is, you probably are even someone who would get really mad if it turns out your gf is cheating on you as well. I always find it amusing how cheaters easily justify their own behaviour but react surprised, angry and with complete lack of understanding if the tables turn.
Also, having a gf just to rawdog her while sleeping around makes me think you probably also don't use protection with those girls if you don't have to. And if so, then going back to fucking that gf and putting her at risk of catching something you picked up would be despicable behaviour (kinda like the whole I just need a hole to raw and cheat is too) and exactly why so many women nowadays say all men are trash.
By the way, why do you need validation if you are such a gorgeous duude like you say? :P
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