Hey Seddit,

I recently started seeing this girl who just got out of a relationship. We hit it off really well despite her reservations of being involved with another guy so soon after. But last night this tension came to its breaking point. I am a virgin and after some disappointing performance issues (I was really nervous,not that great etc) I disclosed this to her. She was immediately really freaked out and said that we should consider not seeing each other that she "wasn't ready for this". That sparked some long talk that eventually ended up in decided that it'd be best if we didn't see each other. So basically not only am I still a virgin I now have another terrible sexual experience to further turn me off pursuing girls. Can anyone suggest/give A) Ways to deal with performance issues B) Some guidance on the situation and how to get my inner game tight again. I really liked this girl and I still want to be with her but I don't even think I should now... Fuck.

TL;DR My terrible sex made a girl end a relationship with me. Help

Thanks